I have been doing pickup recently and i am able to get few girls number. The conversation is not THAT boring I would think. I hear them laugh out loud sometimes, and they seem to be all smiles. I am also not the Goofy type of jokes, conversation. I get straight to the point that I thought they were cute which is why I'm here to try and get to know them.

The biggest problem I'm facing now is: I am able to get numbers but NO REPLY. More than half of the girls, does not reply to my first text. It goes something like this:

"Heyy HB, It's the guy you met today. if you remember haha. -myname-"

Also for the few girls that DOES reply to me, I usually dont ask much questions. I'm just like nice meeting you, talk about our conversation and within 10 - 20 minutes, go straight to something like this "this day, are you free? let's hangout", they let me know they're busy and im like "oh okay, maybe next week then"

This is the static from 12 girls I've approached so far (Im New). 6 Numbers, 3 very friendly rejection, 3 how about Facebook instead?

When I get number I go like this "You know, we're hanging out. What's your number?"

Can someone please tell me what I'm doing wrong? I thought getting their number was the hard part (I dont have problem with this), but I feel like it's more of getting them to text me back or hangout.

How can I improve this?

I also know that girls sometime give you their number because its easier for them to say yes then to reject you.

I'm starting to feel like they have a good conversation time with me, but they don't wana do anything after because I'm not that good looking. I do dress nice and do my hair and stuff though.

If anyone can help me with this, I would GREATLY appreciate it.

"Hey HB, It's the guy from yesterday. If you remember me haha"
It is a DLV of yourself..try to make your first text stand out from rest of AFCs who text her.
If she's a woman of beauty, she MUST get number-closed a lot, and especially the text you've been sending girls is probably what other dudes have been sending..try to make your first text really stand out.

I've been doing a routine "knock knock" game, and had great successes with it; it's the childhood game that makes the interaction unique and fun. And girls always played along.

I don't know about other PUAs' opinion abt it, but personally, I would not use "if you remember me" phrase. It sounds AFCish a little.

Your approach isn't bad at all, it shows your intent. However, your first text seems to be the problem you are not aware of.

Good luck, happy sarging!

Don't take this the wrong way but a lot of girls give out numbers to people they don't like, they could possibly be wrong numbers. Either way I would say text them once or twice and then if still nothing for a few days... fuck em and move on. It could be anything, like something happened in there life, they met someone else ,etc. Either way no point wasting time thinking about it.

You just have to try to set a better impression.

This. If you go look up alot of the text guides out their they all state that the first text MUST be diffrent then all the other guys think. Lets say you are that HB and you get 5 of those a day from people you gave your nr 2 and they all start the same..

No instead stand out from the rest!. And when you get a girls nr. First send a text when you still stand in front of her. Like ''Hey this is a vip store with care please''

And then when you get home after a few hours you can send something FUNNY. Something that stands out. Type in google :'' Pua funny first texts'' ''pua best first texts messages''. Look stuff up like that.

Be diffrent then al the other guys!

Negtar what kind of knock knock do you play?

If you've been joking around or teasing them in 'real life' before getting the number, you can pick up on something previouly said. Then you don't even need to introduce yourself, it's obvious who's texting her. That will also remind her of you more than just saying your name. "Hi it's Joe" and she's thinking 'who's Joe?' She might figure it out, but if you just pick up the joke/tease you had from earlier, she's instantly reminded of you AND the good feelings she was getting earlier laughing at your jokes. That second bit is quite important - a name is a name, if you've only met someone once it might spark some emotional reaction but probably not a lot. If you can spark the emotions she was feeling when she was laughing at your jokes and finding you attractive enough to give you her unmber in the first place then you're off to a great start.

Never say "if you remember me".

Your first text is the one that should have the most impact. It should hook her curiosity.

The way to do that is to stand out from all the other AFC's that text her. I can guarantee that 95% of the texts she gets are EXACTLY :" Hey its the guy you met today , if you remember".


Also , some chicks give fake numbers. The way I do it is something like this.

HB: Number is 123-456-789
Me: OK , so 254-136-891 ?

You basically read the number back to her wrong by switching some of the digits. If she says it's good , it's a fake number and she's lying. If she corrects you on your purposely made 'mistake' , then it's her true number.

It's a good way to weed out dead ends.

Also it's really fun to call her out on the fake number if that's the case , if you got the balls to do it. The reactions are always priceless.

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Wow, Thanks a lot for all the helpful comments.

I guess now I understand what I did wrong. I guess I should of never sent those texts. Oh well, I'll take it as a lesson learned lol.

What do you guys think would be better?

Texting? Calling?

I hear some people say calling is better. Although, I feel like calling out of no where is a little creepy.
I won't even know if she would answer because she might be busy. In that case what to do? Send her a text instead or try calling again?

Depends on the reason you have in mind.
If it's first contact after you get the number, my opinion is this:

Calling is bad. First off you can never know a person's schedule. She can be at work , out with friends , not alone , and a couple more situations where a spoken conversation would be very surfaced and no real connection could be established.
The first impression is very important and calling is a great way to fuck it up due to circumstances you can't control.

Texting is great because it doesn't put her on the spot.It's a better way to build both initial comfort and attraction. But like I said before , that first text is crucial.

However in other cases, like setting up a date , you want to put her on the spot. You want to call. A text can be easily ignored and even if she replies it's much much easier to flake based on a text rather than on an actual spoken conversation , mainly because the latter is much more personal.

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"if you remember haha." - Remove that from your life.. why wouldn't she remember? Value yourself and the impressions you make more.


Second, 80% of the numbers you get will end up "no where" when you go into the interaction just to earn the number. You're leaving sets to quickly; work on building a relationship. And no getting something from them.

When you go into sets " This is the start of a relationship(mindset)" and treat it that way.

I've gotten 20 numbers in one night and they all added up to nothing..

Last but not least.. Make the first reach out to them a PHONE CALL.. Stop with the texting.

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I use the traditional Knock Knock game, but I try to bring back the emotion we shared while opening

It was about 2 weeks ago: night game. I was wearing this leather brown cowboy hat, and this HB opened me up.
HB: "You seriously wear this for the party?"
ME: "That was a nice pick up line."
HB: "I wasn't try-"
ME: (Turned back)
HB: "Let me try that on!" (reaches her hand to my hat)
ME: "Hands off, this shit ain't cheap."
HB: "Wow, you are such a nice cowboy. What's your name?"
bla bla bla
and kiss closed in 20 minutes.

she referred me as a nice cowboy, for knock knock, I tend usually use what she said about me
and by doing so, it seems to bring back the emotion that we shared through out the interaction.

Me: Knock Knock!
HB: Who is this?
Me: A cowboy.
HB: which cowboy? / cowboy who?
Me: A nice cowboy.
Me: hahaha ciao! good morning, it was a good night out, hang over?

It has worked great for me, but criticism is more than welcomed:)

I think I'm gonna try use something like

"You will never guess who this is"