Hi guys, quick question really.

Are there any programs out there that can help with confidence and if so what are the best?

I have no confidence whatsoever with the opposite sex and it really is because i feel very unattractive. This is something I really want to change most about myself.

Thanks!

Confidence is a good feeling about a situation. Confidence comes from expecting to succeed, focusing on something good. You can build confidence by thinking positively. Like visualize yourself having sex with the girl when you approach her. You can build confidence with affirmations. Tell your self oyu will succeed. Tell yourself it will workout. Getting dressed up can put you in a confident mood. Accomplishments and achievements instill confidence. Being around positive people build confidence. Trying new things build confidence and can improve your self image. Ultimately to have confidence with girls you must succeed with girls, but words of encouragement and your mindset help you to build towards success.

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Confidence is not a cause , it's an effect.

Confidence occurs when as a result of you feeling really good about main aspects of your life:

> Having a satisfying professional life (doing well in school / career)
> Having a satisfying social life (that / those best friends that you love hating)
> Having a satisfying outlook (the body you wanna have , the clothes you wanna wear , the haircut you wanna get)


Your outlook is the easiest to work on for obvious reasons. All you need is a gym membership , a shopping trip and a visit to your favorite stylist.
Change you clothing style if that's what you want. Don't just buy the same old stuff. I've heard "I like that but it's not really me" too many times. Bullshit , it IS you ,because YOU like it. You're just being a pussy and affraid of a major change.



These are probably the main things that affect confidence levels. A combination of these will either boost it or destroy it.

There's absolutely no "program" that can help you increase your confidence. That's because most so called programs work on a self-worth appreciation principle. They will try to make you see yourself as more than you really are. That's not confidence , that's a placebo. It only works on gullible people and even that is a ticking time bomb. It will fade , fast.


You reach a respectable level of confidence when before you leave the house , you look in the mirror and can't help yourself but say "God damn I'd fuck myself 24/7 if I were a woman".

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The more you achieve, the more confidence you will develop.
You don't need books, they might help, but too much reading leads nowhere.

Try working on SIMPLE things first, such as having a good body posture when speaking and maintaining eye contact, then move to harder things. Slowly, you'll start to develop a mindset that has "I can do this easily" post stamped on it. In other words, you'll become a fearless bastard who can walk in and achieve whatever in mind.

If you adopt a positive mindset you will generate confidence and that will cause action. Confidence is a cause