| Try not to read too much into this, keep in mind Indicators of Interest (IOI's) are just that - Nothing more.
You can be in a fully committed relationship/married or even talking to your best friend and still give off IOI's without realising it and they are usually so subtle most people aren't really aware that they are actually doing them, but it also could be a factor to do with your surroundings/environment.
I try not to over analyse body language, but for example:
If it was windy and her hair was blowing in her face or in her eyes, she will most likely preen herself to get her hair out of her eyes or it is annoying her, so I wouldn't consider that a solid IOI.
The way forward with interactions and if you want to confirm some of these IOI's is to back it up with some Kino and calibrate it to your conversation.
I'm not sure what to advise about pursuing a girl with a BF after the interaction, but until you establish that treat her as if she's single, sometimes its just a disqualifier she can throw out to weed out the 'weaker' guys who will just take that as a game ender and move on (more so in a night club setting). Call her out on it or bring it up in convo, "oh, what is his name?" and judge on her response, if she hesitates, then you have your next piece of material, lightly tease her that you just caught her out.
I wouldn't recommend a BF destroyer at this stage, if you never build him up during the initial interaction, I'd just continue as if she is single, she will tell you to back off if its not what she wants.
But even so, great job on the number close.
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