I recently like 3 weeks ago, left a two year long relationship, it sucked and i hated loosing her and we spoke talked out what happened and she may me realise that i made her the center of my life, and lost sight of what i wanted and wasnt me anymore so lost feeling for me which makes complete sence i just didnt see it happening till it was too late.

Now it sounds stupid but i literally spun around on a coin, my nan passed away the same week and i was completely fucked up, and then the other day i had a very extreme near death experience we are talking millisecond timing its lucky im alive...and on this day i really woke the fuck up, and changed back to sorting my life out so quickly....

spoke to her and she told me that she wanted to keep me in her life and remain friends cause she didnt want to waste the last two years, to which i humbly agreed but told her out right, if your a friend your a friend babe u gotta get used to that, and she acted like she didnt know what i meant...

so we meet up from time to time not alone, always with other people i make sure i come from a big car scene so we drive around alot, and i make her sit in the back with a mate in the front, she looses that right etc...

anyway she keeps slipping up and i dont no wtf to do i keep correcting her but i dont no if i should as never had a girl do it before....she keeps calling me babe if we are out, (ok not big i no) she was at mine the other day and offered to cook for me(this has happened a few times), when we where all hanging out she asked me if i minded her leaving to meet up with a different friend(i told her no i dont care)...and then the worst one, picked her and her mate up the other day to give them a lift somewhere and when i met up with them she walked up said hey babe and put her arms around me going in for a full on kiss ( and i darted my head to one side, and gave her a more bro hug pat on the back her hun )....after dropping her mate off i said to her, "Look you gotta control your insticts, you just tried to kiss me in the shop" and she just grinned cheekly and said, "i no im sorry" ....

now this confused me enough but she later than night after i said no effence its not happening again, she came back with "oh i no ive friend zoned you in my head i just wouldnt go there"....

Now i hate being friendzone as we all do regardless of the girl so this fucked me off, but i dunno how to take her acts, and if another one happens do i let her kiss me and make her feel stupid or do i react again and avoid it ????

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I'm just gonna go ahead and assume that she's the one who dumped you. If not, the following point still stands.


I went through something similar. Broke up with my ex about 1 and a half months ago and she still calls me baby if we talk. Classic case of "She wants you , but not the relationship (commitment)."

She didn't friendzone you ,that's just her ego fighting back at you for rejecting her kiss.

If it happens again do what you wanna do but make sure to not fuck yourself up emotionally. Fuck her ,kiss her , whatever , just don't put yourself in a position to be hurt.

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i figured this, we have had loads of talks and she always says she is ok, she is over me all that standard stuff and i throw it lal back good im glad, we can move on etc.. it was nice but glad we are mates so on...

but after 2 yrs u get to no someone and no matter how sturn she seems to be there always seems to be little signals words, the way she moves and SLIPS up that say theres more...

ya right next time im a single bloke and she is a fit girls ill go with it lol, im still waiting for the big give away of will she put herself in the position again, e.g. ask me to pick her up same place...

the only excuse she gave was, well last time you picked me up from there we where together so i would ahve kissed u

im like mmmmmhhhmmmmm she has brain and she is a stubborn BITCH so i dout thats the reason haha

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