No I'm not dating someone with a dick, haha. But I am dating someone with depression! So now that I got your attention.. here's my prob:

I never much cared about the outcome of things. But for a loving girlfriend (HB 7) I've been with for a year, who's 19, has depression, whos friends love me, and who is heavily emotionally invested in me, I would like to have a swift, almost painless break up if possible. We have no problems; the relationships been great! I just feel like she isn't the one, and that breaking up with her, like I would with "any other girl", isn't a genus idea... might lead to more scars on her writs or worse .. so yea, can you guys help me on giving me advice on how to go about this?

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Hey man . Just sit her down in a private place where she can cry if needed and don't pull any time constraints. These are the 2 most annoying things possible.

Stay by her side as long as she needs , listen to her , hold her if she cries but stay strong to your resolve. Tell her that she's great,has a lot to offer,will find someone cool...all that. But that you want something different and have made up your mind.

It's not gonna be swift nor painless , but it will be what you need to do if you want to not brake her.

Oh and , make it CRISTAL clear that from that conversation forward , there will be NO contact between the 2 of you. Absolutely no contact for at least 1-2 months. Any further form of communication will only hurt her.A lot.

Do not under any circumstances 'remain friends'. She and probably you too need about 1-2 months to get over each other. Only then can you be friends.

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This defintely remember no contact i've been drawn back into some relationships after I've broken up with them because we talked to soon then she thinks we're back together