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| R.C | PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2013 9:45 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title |  | Joined: Thu Oct 13, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 5428 Location: Romania | | So yeah,introverts.
Girls are like that too sometimes. You know , shy , timid. Not all that full of life energy.
Some people are just naturally easier to intimidate then others. So , by expressing yourself both physically and verbally , these more introverted people get intimidated and scared of expressing themselves around you.
One of the best examples that comes to mind is with my 2 SPAM. One which is a girl.
The guy always walks around the house singing like a crazy fool. Whatever he is listening to , if he's feeling it he'll be singing it. I'm the dancing guy. If I feel a bit I start dancing. We are by no means a dancer nor a singer , we just express ourselves to music.
The girl however , one day though she was home alone for some reason although I was in the other room. She started taking a shower and was singing like crazy. Dancing around the house , whatever.It was the first time I saw her to actually express freely. When she finally saw me she turned purple with embarrassment. Anyway ,point it she obviously enjoys these things too , but when around other people that express themselves more easily , she gets intimidated and does the exact opposite.
So can this have a negative effect on dating ? I'm a very animated guy. I'm playful. I tease girls a lot , twist them around , 'fight with them'. With most people I get great reactions but then there's always people that are a little bit more shy and rigid.
Could their shyness actually make them feel uncomfortable in regard to my more animated style ? I personally don't mind their seeming lack of life force.However ,I am wondering if their own 'issues' could affect our relationship in a negative way.
What do you guys think about this ?
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| Fly_Swatter | PostPosted: Sun Feb 10, 2013 1:53 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Wed Nov 21, 2012 8:29 pm Posts: 708 Location: Antarctica | | Research has shown that introverts are better paired with extroverts as yourself. So, even if you are intimidating them with your extroverted nature, rest assured your animation will never go unappreciated. Introverts would rather not be around other quiet individuals. _________________ Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.
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