First off, thanks to everyone who has been helping me lately, 7000 and puaninja come to mind, but there have been some other great posters/repliers so thank you all.

Anyway let's jump in.

This older girl came over last night to stay the night and we didn't have sex. This is the second time we've slept together and still no sex. Every time we're alone she says she's on her period. I suppose this could be the case since the last time was a month ago, but I'm starting to feel like she is using me for emotional comfort and avoiding sex for her own reasons (not related to menstruation).

Something doesn't seem right.

She says she hasn't had sex in over a year, but a girl this hot I have a lot of trouble believing that from.

It feels like she has a huge guard up. She also said "the last time I had sex it only lasted 40 seconds." I said "oh maybe I can get 5" sarcastically, but I don't know why she told me that or what it's supposed to mean.

How do I break this thing down and how can I get her to start feeling more sexual? I make all the moves, but sometimes they feel very forced. Perhaps I'm coming on too strong?

It might be true. I was on a huge downswing with this once. Met the same girl literally every week red week of the month. Bad luck happens dude.

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