how is easy it to sarge alone? i dont have any single friends so wingman isnt an option any tips?

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The first time I sarged alone in the Daytime it was scary as shit. I did 2 approaches in 2 hours. The very next day I knew I had to overcome it and I did around 20 approaches, was in full state, got 5 pretty solid numbers and a Day 2 the next day.

It requires self motivation, it requires that you know exactly what you want and that you go for that and that you be unapologetic about it. It requires momentum, meaning it requires you to jump from one girl to the next quickly, from one interaction to the other to build upon your momentum and state. If you can and know how to do these things then sarging alone will be a blast. I had a blast the second day, and it came from a horrible first day and knowing what had to be done.

I find it tough at bars. Girls are wondering why the hell you're out alone, do you have any friends, are you just a weird guy, etc. What's your point of going out if you don't have anyone with you?

You can get past it, certainly, but it can be tough.

In the daytime, it's a lot easier.

Girls aren't expecting to be picked up, you can just be friendly and open and build from there.

One way I've found to do it at night first is legitimately look for new friends, for the first hour or so in a bar - and then from there, move to talk to girls with your new friends. I've actually made some good friends I now use to wing for me too.

The first time I sarged alone, I had to give myself a pep talk for like 30 min before I mushed up all my courage to make my first approach. It isn't easy but you'll get used to it. You do need momentum, this is where the 3 seconds rule really helps. You see the girl, say hi right away, your mind won't have time to psych yourself out. Of course, you will get bad approach for the first couple times by not knowing where the conversation will do or have to lead. But you'll get better and realized women aren't that scary, they're just human like us.

I started out by asking direction from 10 chicks a day, then after I felt more comfortable with opening, I switched to trying to maintain conversation and create attractions. My advice is going for 10s right of the bat, it's hard to start. But if you aim for the moon, the other millions stars become much easier to deal with later on once you already got the experience under your belts. That's what I did. It's risky but high reward. After 3 days of opening only 9s and 10s, my AA was reduced by at least 60%. It will always be there, but nowadays I can just come up to a 10 and flirt like it's something natural.

I also came to hate sarging with friends because there are a lot of drama that come with it. AMOG, jealousy, judgement, you being pressured to perform better, etc... It does have it pros and cons, but for me, I discard it because most of my guy friends were either jealous or annoyed by the fact I was doing better than them and always tried to AMOG me. If you can find someone who is cool and nonjudgemental and also doing PUA, sure. It'd be a great help because he can be a spotter for your flaws.

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Just remember that EVERY woman's first reaction to a guy is: "Who is this guy, why is he alone, and is he a serial killer?" That is why the initial comfort stage is so important. That is why they say to root your opener--explain why you have approached them. I opened a 4 set once as a warm up and just approached them at their table and started saying dumb shit. Most of the girls froze up awkwardly and the one closest to me grabbed her purse and pulled it into her lap. The reason that happened is because I never explained what I was doing there. For all they knew I was some criminal trying to distract them so I could snatch some purses. I was actually with a wing that day, but he was off somewhere else so it looked like I was alone.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you have to be more aware of displaying social validation and alleviating concerns about stranger danger. Normal guys are perceived as creepy when they fail to do this.

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Once you get used to going out alone, it is the easiest shit ever.

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decided to go it alone tonight got bored and when to a strip club ended up closing a stripper instead

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My advice is avoiding gaming hired guns, they got paid to be nice to you so there is not much challenges there and your game won't improve significantly. The best places to sarge alone in my experience are wine or quiet bar, mall/supermarket and bookstores. It requires more skills and the women are usually higher quality.

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There comes a point when the girls inebriated enough to relax so as not to worry as whether you are a serial killer or not that things become easier.

sarge on. whether we go with 'friends' and separate later or sarge alone makes no difference.

yeah. it always seems like a close unless you actually f closed. did you f close or was it just a 'close'?

-dang now see i've had good time rolling stone'N alone....girls, sets, etc. as i'm sitting @ bar would find an excuse to bump me/hit me/ioi me, just to see what i got....just last summer was on LEGENDARY State Street ALONE ..none of my guys were on it (females) so i said F it... i got this alone & when i comeback with the HONEYz dont say shiii handsOFF...well anywayz i was @ this bar& i have a gift for guessing girls names out of the blue..well i freaked the set out and they all giggly like ''omg omg'' (CHICK-CRACK sshhiiHAAA) so we chatted 4 a min they bought me Liquid cocaines (again i guessed the ring leaders fav shot& that was by accident) i froze up after we cheers'd hhhhaaaa! (i just couldnt believe i had whole set on my Nutz...&each 1 by 1 went2table where bf's were but mmmmaaaan where im at rt now them girls woulda still been with me at least 1 sshhhiii f that (ITS ALL GOOD CAUSE IT WAS A STEP I NEEDED TO SEE ..an it was ez ..now i know how2handle it)+ EVERY1 SEEN HOW I GOT DOWN 5 HOTT CHICK one dude ..everyone of them i had laughing mmmmaaan come on...peace GREEN BAY PACKERs BEAT vikings

i k closed her and number closed her

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It's very tough at bars, but I've had pretty good success with it. I actually just wrote a blog post (for a blog that doesn't exist yet) with a short strategy guide on meeting people at the bar alone. Feel free to PM me if you'd like to read it.

Sarging is suppose to be fun. Find a friend and make it an adventure. I sometimes find random guys on the street walking alone who I think would be interesting to sarge with and I invite them. They learn a shit load and we have a good time. That's what it's about!

Doing it alone too can be fun, but it's kind of weird when you're walking through a mall, streets, uni, in circles and the same people are seeing you. But wtv, just be awesome and do your thing.