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I understand ignoring this delusional mindset part and can manage the attraction phase but I'm more concerned with the consequence part (casual / breakup) since conservative girls wont accept the truth and act out according to their stupid notions, and those actions include crazy things like suicide attempts.
I would really like to know how to manage those girls' expectations and get them out of their delusional mindset so that they don't make a big deal out of petty things and take dangerous actions.
Suicide has nothing to do with conservatism. Suicide, and especially threats of suicide, are often just calls for attention. By rewarding a girl who threatens with suicide with attention, one is simply reinforcing her behavior and bringing her closer to actually attempting it.
It sounds a little like you are involved with a girl who is threatening with suicide if you break up. Like I said, this is probably just a cry for attention. So tell her that such threats do not make you love her, nor do they make you want stay with her, their only effect is to make you even more unhappy with your current relationship. Also, don't let suicide threats stop you from breaking up with her. There is no need to sacrifice your happiness in order to achieve her ultimately unattainable goal of staying together forever. If you think the suicide threat is actually credible, inform her parents and alert health professionals. Then simply wait for them to take the situation out of your hands, because you are both unable and unfit to deal with an individual who is intent on killing herself.
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