I'm going back to University in 4 weeks. The girl I CANNOT get over and have not been able to get out my thoughts is going to be there on every night out at all the clubs.

This girl is beyond a 10. She is unbelievable.

I have kissed her once in a club got her number, but that was a drunk moment in a club, it fizzled out in to pure nothingness. I think i have got over her but then i see her and i realise i was only kidding myself. Anyway, i have tried having sex with other girls and taking her off my FB timeline etc but nothing is working!

What should i do?

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19 Years Old
United Kingdom
Student

You gotta realize that there are plenty other girls who are quality. Approach them, f**k them. Only way to get over one-itis.

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Exactly! Keep yourself busy all the time, go out every night, get yourself into feel good situations with friends! You r going back to uni in 4 weeks and its gonna be awesome! Keep busy all day and night and just remove from your life anything that reminds you of her

You didnt even had sex with her?
You got some unfinished business!

Read some material on PUA get yourself ready for round II. If you fucked up as bad like you said. Just freeze her for month or 2. Work on your game and pick up other women.

I use to like a girl really bad when I was 19 I fucked it up because my game wasnt ready yet. 6 months later I got back and nailed it.

So never look back.. Keep looking forward

cut every possbile source of contact, or anything that you could anchor to her, remove her from your mind completely, de-tach, move on, find new things to attach to

GFTOW

First delete her contact immediately on facebook, get over her means you get over her, why have something you can dwell and rely on. You are creating a safety net for you to gawk and mind fuck yourself over. To make the jump you have to cut the rope. (SPAM reference ftw just saw it awesome movie).


Anyways, to get over her try and make your time busy, meet new woman etc... In fact it would be mental and sick if you go up to her, ask her to wing you. Be like your fucking chill, I like your vibe, we should fix each other up when we go out clubbing.

Now you have a new friend that will boost your social value. Wow isn't life fun!

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-Raphael

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Yes dude. friendzone her and fuck her hot friends.