Well, it's true, she had a six months relationship with this german guy, we're romanians too btw.
I am just gonna accept that i have oneitis for her and work on getting other girls

Yeah, so it ended, she saw me gaming other girl in the dormroom and couldn't keep calm like the arrangement said and got jealous, and wants to end it, i thought she doesn't have alot of feelings for me, so she couldn't get jealous, but she did.
Anyway, tried to tell her that i don't really want to see other girls and i game them just to try to get over her, and told her that i want a fresh start and i want to take her to a date tonight, and she refused saying we can talk in the dormroom too, she wants us to remain just friends, while still cuddling and kissing me, she refuses to kiss me on the lips.
She still wants tonight to watch a movie with me, and sleep together, WHAT THE FUCK DOSE SHE WANT? Should i fucking remain friends with her while i game other girls and maybe fuck her if she wants later?
And Yeah... it fucking hurts, i feel like getting drunk non stop, it's hard. I have other dates, but my morale is at ground and don't really know how to handle it.
Any remedies for this?

Eddie and the other guys, thanks alot, and sorry that i didn't listen to your advices, it would've been the right moves, but it was to hard.

Mistake.

For you to act like a man. Lead with passion.
This is bitch-ass behavior. Snap out of it. Stop drinking for a while.

We know what we are doing. Next time, lay off the booze/drugs and implement the advice.

When she comes over, make a move. Be fun, chill, relaxed. Focus on the moment only, not the future.

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You never wanted help. You just wanted someone to convince you that all the wrong moves you were making we okay.

A waste of everyones time.

You can end the thread here.

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Nah bro, i really appreciate all the help i got from you guys, and we're still fucking and all that shit, i just gave her the space she needed and she came back, from that "friends" talk, we're fucking again, anyway i do realize that i haven't listened to any of you guys, but now i will end it myself so it can be easier.
Just fucking the shit out of her while i can.

Yeah and it feels even worse now, i get jealous easily and all that shit, the good thing is i started baning her anal like a superstar and she likes the shit out of it , but either way Fews was right, it's a toxic relationship and i have to end it as quickly as possible and i don't the strenght to do it, i'm to attached, i fucking never felt so in scarcity in my life. Today she went with a old friend of her who she told she used to fuck a year ago to help her on a project ( thats true) but i believe she is fucking him (that might just be my mind) she sent me pictures and screen shots as i told her jokingly that "i see what kind of projects you see " told her to call me when she arives back at the dorm room, and she hasn't called yet and it's 2 am.
I don't want to waste anyones time i just got some pm's on how is my porgress going, and i want everyone to learn from mistakes. Boom, when you feel it's toxic just get out of it.
I still need few advices, to get back on my track but i think i already got them all.
She just came to my room to sleep with me i dont know how to react, and all that shit.
hope i will get everything i can and help others learn from my mistakes, it might just be my jealous mind but..... hey, thats why we are all here.
thanks again.

Stop taking it so seriously.

You're fuck buddies. That's it.

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R.C. nailed it. You are acting like 95% of men who get a taste of pussy: paranoid, clingy, and overly serious. This is not emotionally-centered behavior. Use this time to practice controlling your emotions and focus on fun, and the moment.

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Yeah it's pretty hard not to take it seriously. when you never had a serious relationship, anyway i'm kinda drunk now and it's hard to write this, i believe it is harder and harder everyday, and there doesn't exist any unattachment program that helps us get it out of our mind.
The only thing i believe it is to go out and meet other girls, since i have few dates up, but don't have time to do it cause those are exams times, it's hard to get over.

You're doing the right thing: Working towards your goals, women second. And as long as we all learn from mistakes, nothing is wasted.

The pain sucks. I know a lot of guys recommend hiking to a wilderness beach alone, and meditating as the sun sets, and finding ultimate inner peace.

But IMHO that's bullshit.

Nothing gets you over a girl faster than having a hotter girl blow you. That my friend, is the ultimate light switch.

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