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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2015 2:05 pm 
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My ex has gone quiet , she was messaging everyday this week but not heard from her in two days. Is it a good idea to complement her on new photos she put up? Or is that stalkerish.

Trying to think of different ways to flirt.
She initiates. You don't. Go and watch "Corey Wayne - The Illusion of Action"

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It's stalkerish.

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 Post subject: Re: ex messaged me
PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2015 1:58 am 
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I just watched Corey Wayne 'illusion of attraction' it was a really good video and also 'Forceful pursuit causes rejection'. after reading his book it become apparent what I was doing wrong.

For the last two dates she was clearly not happy. Corey Wayne's book says to confront a girl about what is wrong and discuss it. I never did this I just ignored it and carried on normal. definitely the wrong thing to do.

3 dates before we broke she told me she usually runs a mile if she gets into a relationship and also asked if I was fine with just texting her in the evening. All these signs show she was losing attraction and wanted me to go slower. I was trying to hard to get her into a relationship. Yet I was still pursuing her at this point.

Things make sense now. I've not messaged her i'll wait for her to message otherwise fuck it. I'm still seeing other girls and will continue to do so. pitty I've not found any girl I would want be in a relationship with.


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Ok she messaged me today, it was very friendly though. When I message her back she doesn't seem to give much away. Almost like she's just doing it to see if I'm available.


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Stop thinking relationship "I don't know any girl that I want a relationship with" lol. Just go out with them and date them, don't LOOK for a relationship, or you're already too invested and needy before the girl has even got to know you properly.

Since you're following Corey Wayne, and I also like his material... I'll advise you to just follow it religiously for a while, until you can bring your own style to it and make it your own. "Hang out, have fun, hook up" remember ;) ...don't even think about relationships, it'll happen naturally and she'll be the one to bring it up when she's ready.

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 Post subject: Re: ex messaged me
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I understand Corey Wayne's theory. I'm honestly not looking for a relationship and not looking into this that much. Just wonder why she bothers to message she doesn't give anything away. keeps it short.


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Is this the one you went on 8 dates with and wouldn't escalate?

Regardless, I'd say she's just looking for some attention...

Wait....you've made yet ANOTHER thread about this chick? Wasn't it like 3 or more threads on this girl? She wasn't your gf. She's looking for attention. Please, block her and just move on. This is so sad tbh.


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 Post subject: Re: ex messaged me
PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2015 1:07 am 
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I understand Corey Wayne's theory. I'm honestly not looking for a relationship and not looking into this that much. Just wonder why she bothers to message she doesn't give anything away. keeps it short.
You have been told hundreds of times, but you don't like the answers so you're ignoring them.

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"But... Cmon guys. I don't care that much at all. I really just think of her as a diversion... BUT I'm absolutely obsessed with her and really don't want to fuck this up! Tell me what it all means! Tell me what to say!"

You've exhausted your good graces with most of us when it comes to this girl and your blatantly fictitious, transparent attitude to her...

For someone claiming to want to improve, you sure are thick at times. Please take the advice given here. You're walking into this one and we all see it.


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 Post subject: Re: ex messaged me
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'Blantantly, fictitious, transparent attitude to her'? Please explain this to me???

I am taking the advice! I'm seeing other girls like you told me, I've read Corey Wayne's book, watching his videos every night. I am making effort.

You told me to flirt which was your advice, which im not good at. Instead of being nasty to people help them. If you don't want to help that's fine. Let someone else reply.


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'Blantantly, fictitious, transparent attitude to her'? Please explain this to me???
You say you don't care... But you don't want to fuck it up...

You say you are seeing other girls, but you REALLY like this girl -- yet you don't care all that much.

It's transparent man. You're not fooling anyone.


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 Post subject: Re: ex messaged me
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Have you ever liked a girl? I'm sure just about everyone on here has. I can't help it if I like her. I've done my best to move on I'm seeing other girls.

If she messages me there isn't much I can do. I'm not rude to someone to ignore her messages if that's what you want me to do.

Sorry but there is always one girl you like more than others, otherwise we would just see any girl.


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This entire thread is irrelevant and a waste of time. You taking her out on those numerous dates was a waste of time. Now that she messaged you, you're continuing to waste time. You thinking about her is wasting time.

At some point you have to shit or get off the pot. If you want to go out with her, quit wasting time and ask her out. If you want her to be interested in you, you have to demonstrate that you are a sexual person to her. Be a man and lead her to where you want things to go. If she doesn't follow your lead, go back to the other girls that you are dating and don't give this girl a single second of your time ever again.

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 Post subject: Re: ex messaged me
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Have you ever liked a girl? I'm sure just about everyone on here has. I can't help it if I like her. I've done my best to move on I'm seeing other girls.

If she messages me there isn't much I can do. I'm not rude to someone to ignore her messages if that's what you want me to do.

Sorry but there is always one girl you like more than others, otherwise we would just see any girl.
You're a human being, not an animal. You can rationalize.

You can rationalize that this woman is playing the fuck out of you and you're eating it up.

I'm locking this, as it's yet another thread on that one girl from a guy who won't listen, and it's wasting the entire forum's time. That's at least 4 on this one girl.

Please don't create another.


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