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Hey Arch, I'm curious, how are these women NOT desperate if they blow up your phone first, and they can go a week without a better option coming along? Not saying they are, but you do understand how THAT sounds desperate right? And if they are HOOKED from date 1, does this not signal desperation as well? I'm just curious because you seem to be describing alot of "desperate" behavior. Whats the difference?
What I'm saying is that when you blow up a hot woman's phone, you act like every other guy. The OP (let's not forget context, here) said he was getting lukewarm responses after two dates. This indicates potential fence-sitting by the women. Any mistake could be the last, thus my comments about avoiding neediness.
As far as you and a woman being hooked on the first date, that's not desperation. That's a connection.
But texting her the next day is no where close to "blowing up" her phone. I dont think anyone is saying blow up a womans phone after a good date. My question is concerning how can you say high value not desperate women wouldnt care if you dont contact them, but these same women will be hooked from first dates, hit you up first and can go a week without contact from you with no loss of interest? Cant you see how same way you can say a woman hooked after 1st date is not desperation, its connection, you can very well say hitting her up the next day doesnt show neediness...its connection? In fact, if neediness is SHOWING interest a DAY after a good date, then isnt it WAY WAY more needy for a chick to MAINTAIN interest after a WEEK after a good date? Dont want to derail, just confusing cause these 9s and 10's sound like the only people who act desperate.
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