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The best way I can define it is (my assumption), the girl doesn't get sexually turned on, she may see me as a funny friend that can escalate. She doesn't see me as a dominant man that she respects. Cause you have to be above her.
Girls can have orgasms just by sucking on their nipples and mashing their breasts. They have twice more nerve endings on their clitoris than what we have on our entire penis. They can have +50 consecutive vaginal orgasms while it's a tall order for us men to cum three consecutive times in an hour without getting limp in between.
If you're patient and comfortable with hand holding, you can sexually turn on a woman versus a 'dominant' man who's not comfortable touching a woman and who cums in less than two minutes. If you're really good at something then you become dominant in that activity. That's all there is to becoming a dominant man-- becoming extremely good at what you do whether it's basketball, MMA, politics, music, business or plain fucking and sexual escalation.
The lowly waiter or orderly still gets laid and is able to raise a family not because he is intellectually, socially, professionally or physically dominant but rather because he can sexually escalate.
Once you realize this, then you become a dominant man in the areas of sexual escalation and fucking plus in whatever professional field you are engaged in. When you fuck girls real good, they'll respect you more; otherwise, they'll lose their only source of multiple, consecutive vaginal orgasms. As long as you're willing to walk away when you have been treated bad, most girls won't risk losing their reliable source of pleasure. It's either they'll make up for that incidental bad SPAM / disrespect or they will not disrespect you at all.
When girls realize you're a scarce piece of beefcake, your value as a dominant man (in the sex department) shoots sky high.
Good post.