How to be respected and not be a Nice guy



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 14, 2016 1:38 pm 
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Why can't this girl get her own ass something in the snackbar, is she missing a leg or did you got to the snackbar already and she asked you to bring something?

I would tell her you can walk there yourself can't you in a playful way..., outcome won't be she jumping your dick but i aint gonna run for her if she can get it herself...

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 14, 2016 7:03 pm 
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Material items are like beautiful gift wrapping around a present. They can definitely grab someones attention, and make them curious about what the gift actually is. Sometimes they end up sleeping with the guy before they find out, but great gift wrapping is not enough to make you like or actually want to keep a beautifully wrapped piece of shit. Thats all it is, its gift wrapping.. It raises curiosity but does absolutely nothing for you in the end.

As far as you being a nice guy..

Every emotion doesn't need to be acted upon or expressed. Anger is an emotion just like love is an emotion. Now imagine you punched someone everytime your anger to you " punch that guy because I'm angry". You know because of your knowledge of the law and/or potential consequences that its probably better not the punch the guy just because your angry and your anger told you to do so.

And its the same thing with love.. Just because you feel love and they love tells you " Enter a relationship with that girl, because i love her" doesn't mean you should actually enter a relationship with her. You have to have knowledge of who she is and if she's good for your life outside of the emotions before you decide whether or not you should be with her. You "feeling" something is never a good enough excuse to take any action. You can't go to the court of law and say " I just felt like doing it so I should be able to do it" and get away with a crime.. And you should be expressing or acting out every other feeling just because its felt. You have to logically rationalize your emotions. Feelings are a guide to life they are not the meaning of life. I wrote an article called " Take Control Over Your Emotion" that will further expound upon this topic.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 10:05 am 
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Some of you guys confuse being "nice" with being "supplicant".
Let me oversimplify it a bit.

Scenario 1:
You're on your way to the watercooler and the female coworker next to you asks if you can also bring her a glass of water.
What do you do?

Scenario 2:
You and the girl are sitting down at McDonalds eating your fries and she wants to smoke. But there's no ashtray on your table. She asks if you could go get her an ashtray.
What do you do?


In the first case, you bring her the glass. There's very little effort implied since you were headed towards the watercooler anyway, and there's no point in literally being an asshole about it and making her also get up and do the same thing you're doing because "that's alpha behavior".

In the second case, you say no. The effort in this example is identical but she's the one needing the item, so she should be the one getting it. Common sense.
Besides, imagine it was your best friend making that request and not a girl. Would you not tell him to get his own damn ashtray while also kindly suggesting he should go fuck himself in the process?

So yes, be nice. Be normal rather. Just don't be supplicant.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 10:40 am 
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there is nothing wrong with being nice,everyone is nice to someone,just don't let your "nice" ruins your true self,if you don't like someone,or something about her let it out,if she finds it offensive,who cares,at least you"re real,like what you really like,don't like whatever you don't like,i don't like lazy girls who waste their days on facebook and then telling me that they are looking for a job meanwhile getting tons of validation from whiners telling her how beautiful she is which makes her feel cocky as shit,i wont hook up with them because i don't like that


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2016 3:17 am 
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The best way I can define it is (my assumption), the girl doesn't get sexually turned on, she may see me as a funny friend that can escalate. She doesn't see me as a dominant man that she respects. Cause you have to be above her.
Girls can have orgasms just by sucking on their nipples and mashing their breasts. They have twice more nerve endings on their clitoris than what we have on our entire penis. They can have +50 consecutive vaginal orgasms while it's a tall order for us men to cum three consecutive times in an hour without getting limp in between.

If you're patient and comfortable with hand holding, you can sexually turn on a woman versus a 'dominant' man who's not comfortable touching a woman and who cums in less than two minutes. If you're really good at something then you become dominant in that activity. That's all there is to becoming a dominant man-- becoming extremely good at what you do whether it's basketball, MMA, politics, music, business or plain fucking and sexual escalation.

The lowly waiter or orderly still gets laid and is able to raise a family not because he is intellectually, socially, professionally or physically dominant but rather because he can sexually escalate.

Once you realize this, then you become a dominant man in the areas of sexual escalation and fucking plus in whatever professional field you are engaged in. When you fuck girls real good, they'll respect you more; otherwise, they'll lose their only source of multiple, consecutive vaginal orgasms. As long as you're willing to walk away when you have been treated bad, most girls won't risk losing their reliable source of pleasure. It's either they'll make up for that incidental bad SPAM / disrespect or they will not disrespect you at all.

When girls realize you're a scarce piece of beefcake, your value as a dominant man (in the sex department) shoots sky high.

Good post.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2016 7:01 pm 
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Simple solution.... Get new friends.

My guess is your friends are just as nerdy and polite as you are... I can FEEL your niceness coming from your post. Make some friends with some bad ass mother fuckers and you too will become a bad ass mother fucker, mother fucker. ;)


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2016 9:38 pm 
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Simple solution.... Get new friends.

My guess is your friends are just as nerdy and polite as you are... I can FEEL your niceness coming from your post. Make some friends with some bad ass mother fuckers and you too will become a bad ass mother fucker, mother fucker. ;)

Yay, this is true. You are the average of the people you hang out with the most. That's why poor people stay poor, and the rich stay rich.

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Wow there are some major social factors at play here! These seriously need to be addressed and even brought to light, so here we go.

I met Adam Sandler once(yes happy gilmore) I remember it like it was yesterday. It was new years eve 2014 around 2 in the morning, at the Waldorf Astoria in boca raton, floida. Im waiting outside of the resort at valet, and I hear someone talking I look over and the two girls I was with, that I just met that night, say hey is that Adam Sandler? I look at and say " hey adam how's it going'' take in mind im wasted and so is he. He replies back hey whats going on guys, so we're all talking adam, the girls, and I, while waiting at valet. So I say hey wanna take some shots, guys its new years!(there's a bar like two feet away in the main lobby by this big ice statue carved out saying 2014). So we all hang-out at the bar take shots take a lot of pictures(i still have) we part ways I take the girls back to the room and end the new year on a good note looking out to a ocean view.

I couldn't help thinking wow adam sandler is a super star,everyone in the world knows him and literally he is one of the nicest guys I ever met in my life, and super down to earth. But he's still adam sandler, this guy had me and the girls rolling laughing, he has a amazing sense of humor, and is one of the coolest fuckin guys ever and still one of the nicest. The girls fuckin loved him it was such a fun good time.

These things are skills adam sandler has finely tuned skills, he's one of the highest paid actors and one of the best actors ever he's honed his craft and skills as a person. Being a good person a nice guy by nature is not a skill and is a good respectable thing having a good heart and being a good person is a awesome thing carry that with pride, plus girls will see that and eat that shit up. Adam sanlder was actually genuinely good guy he was there with his family and friends and we were just having genuinely good fun.

Don't look at nice guy or being a good person a weakness it's actually a strength when it's so genuine!

Now Nice Guy Can mean many things, my context of nice guy can be different from your meaning of nice guy, Same with bad boy. You have to look at nice guy and understand what it means to you. Usually people use nice guy to address supposed weaknesses.

Like Nice Guys aren't Fun, Or Exciting, Or Very Seductive. Where as bad boys, are exciting, fun, cool, enticing. These are just Cliches, and really just Limiting Beliefs. You can be a nice guy and work on the parts that you can improve.

Remember skills like Adam Sandler had, this guy was a socialist, and nice, humble and down to earth at the same time.

I honestly like being a nice guy, while also being fun, exciting, and seductive. This is just who I am inside I like helping people and genuinely enjoy meeting new people, this is just who I am, and it genuinely makes me happy.

Understand who you are, what your strengths are and improve on the parts your weak at. You don't have to be someone your not, or portray something your not. Find your style, be true to who you are, and evolve your skills and your game in the process, just like a super star actor or a elite sports player.

Stay True That's respectable


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