Should I just play game on her and hook up with her, because I think that would be ideal or should I actually give her some wiggle room because we were together for so long.

Should I just play game on her and hook up with her, because I think that would be ideal or should I actually give her some wiggle room because we were together for so long.

Sure, if you enjoy crying and begging, while you my friend, you are the last thing on her mind every time she happily bounces up and down on his dick.

no no no.... for god's sake NOPE!

you are not in the right mindset to run any kind of game on this chick and it will explode in your face.

you are already trying to rationalize ways to see her or contact her.

if you want things to work out you have to do the hard work.... you are your own worst enemy here bro. don't listen to your lies!

mark the calendar now.... soonest you can see or talk to her is April 7.... I'd say June 7 would be more ideal.

heal up bro, then run game... right now you're a wounded animal in the deep ocean and sharks can fucking smell blood

Dammit, your right lol. And if she does reach out, ignore?

yup... and you're likely to get a range of communication from mad to sad to super sweet....

then there will be the LONG silence.... months long.... that's what you're looking for

after that when she contacts you.... you're golden

no no no.... for god's sake NOPE!

you are not in the right mindset to run any kind of game on this chick and it will explode in your face.

you are already trying to rationalize ways to see her or contact her.

if you want things to work out you have to do the hard work.... you are your own worst enemy here bro. don't listen to your lies!

mark the calendar now.... soonest you can see or talk to her is April 7.... I'd say June 7 would be more ideal.

heal up bro, then run game... right now you're a wounded animal in the deep ocean and sharks can fucking smell blood

Yea i'm definitely not texting her when she gets home or have been since i joined this forum. My question is should I be open to texting her when gets in touch with me probably in a week or so once she gets home. As mentioned in my last post I'm on the fence on being open to seeing what she has to say or just playing game on her and hopefully turning this into a fuck buddy.

Who are you kidding? There's absolutely no way in hell you would be able to handle a fuck buddy relationship. You don't turn exes you had feels for into FB's, unless you're a straight up masochist and enjoy emotional pain and what not.

Cut your losses and take the time to heal. Also stop trying to rationalize ways of talking to her. Not texting first is pretty much irrelevant if you're gonna break down first thing when she gives you an open.

It's over. Accept that. Don't talk to her at all for the next 6-9 months regardless of who initiates contact and focus on yourself. And after that you probably won't talk to her either, because by then you'd be well over it enjoying life.


Yah your right. I don't think seeing her at all would help. The answers are already in my head, Iguess i just needed to hear them from someone else. The whole thing that screws with me is the fact I haven't seen her in over 1.5 years. It all happens for a reason though...future looks bright and Il be positing stories of new chicks soon. I have one I'm trying wheel at the moment that would supersedethe shit out of my ex. Thanks for the ccomment and will keep u all posted on status.

Be smart dude.

This is the best Ex advice out there.

relationships/the-guys-who-want-their-b ... 92365.html

the best post to explain what is going on is chase blog on how to get your ex back... No the getting her back is not the important part is the break down of the reason she is leaving... Also check you my blog on break up dynamics..

Going through my current main break up after 10 years... I had a pretty good run..

Thanks for the advice my man. It has only been a month but I have a ton of good people around me and am extremely busy with chatting up other girls learning about PUA so i feel pretty dam good. We agreed to not talk right now as its too early. Maybe one day we will be friends but right now iim back on the grind and loving it. Thanks for all the help and advice guys, I really needed it.

Just make sure you keep challenging yourself, betting on yourself and bettering yourself every day. Maybe keep a diary or something and every day write down what you did that day along with what you're going to get done the next day. I did something similar back in 2014 and it's cool to read it now and look at things that I used to consider achievements back then "do a push up" hahahaha