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PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2015 11:46 am 
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Dear fucking god. So much drama with a girl you haven't even kissed. What the fuck man?

Why are you putting yourself through this?

God damn.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2015 12:28 pm 
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Dude she still wants you.
Just take it easy, she needs some time.

Keep teasing her and keep trying to kiss her.
Take the focus off the 'issues' and keep em on enjoying yourself while with her

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2015 4:08 am 
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Yeah I think she enjoys your company. However, You're giving her way to much. You text her through the morning. That's ridiculous. You should be busy doing other things. Look I'm in a similar situation with different circumstances and I can honestly say, back off! Don't contact her for a while and just continue being busy with other things man. Stay on your purpose which I hope just isn't going to work (9-5). Let her contact you, she would then wonder what's going on. It all comes down to a game, and we all play it. Everything that R.C. an Eddie says take into consideration. And yea if you have to question yourself if you're in the friendzone, then you are. I am too, welcome to the club.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2015 9:11 am 
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Dude if you want this girl you have to stop listening to what she's saying and start listening to her actions. She wants you, but is afraid of braking it off with her dude completely.

All this ridiculous amount of talking will only serve to send her straight into her arms. You're scared and confused? fucks' sake man!

Honestly all this emotional shitstorm is disgusting. The only reason she didn't decide it's you who she wants is because you're mimicking her. She's confused - you're confused. She's scared - you're scared. She needs you to give her the preview of a good bet. And that's depicted by who you are, not by endless streams of text.

She needs a man in her life. Not a scared, confused and undetermined little boy.

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Two days ago, we went out for dinner again. It was a spontaneous decision. My plans got cancelled last minute. I sort of negged her earlier for taking too much time to put on her makeup etc and this time for dinner she actually was pretty darn early. Like 20 mins early? She then told me later at night (while we were texting after the date) that she's worried about herself because shes getting too excited to meet me and she actually rushed all her work just so to meet me.

I also told her I don't really like girls who cant be at the restaurant waiting by herself. Like there are some girls I dont know why they just can't sit at the table alone and wait for me but she actually offered to get a table for us first which Im pretty happy about.

So after dinner we went to watch a movie, and our bodies were very close to each other. I was nervous as hell but I decided to grab her hand. Too bad, the movie was so short I could only hold her hand for like the last 40 mins. Good thing is she is reciprocative. Like she really grabbed it back.

The next day she told me even holding hands were a pretty big deal and she's very afraid. And she asked me why am I holding her hands, what if she pushed my hands away. I told her I dont know, Im just in the moment kind of thing. But she told me not to KISS HER. She said if I KISSED HER I WILL NOT SEE HER AGAIN LIKE WTF.

And she kept saying we're moving too fast? And you guys are saying I should push it even more lol. I'll see her again tomorrow. I should try to k-close her right. She still told me she's dead serious about the not to kiss her part.


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Anyway, just wanna say thanks guys. I appreciate the help/replies. Have a good weekend brahs.


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Yeah. She's dead serious because she knows she won't be able to resist.
Kiss her next time. Build up to it. Amplify the huge sexual tension that's already present between you two. Do it right and she'll experience half an orgasm just from what would be a very passionate make-out.

And of-course we encourage you to push her limits. She evidently wants you to. Why do you think she made the "don't kiss me" comment? It's like when a girl says "we're not having sex". She's already thinking about it.

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And of-course we encourage you to push her limits. She evidently wants you to. Why do you think she made the "don't kiss me" comment? It's like when a girl says "we're not having sex". She's already thinking about it.
You lead into the kiss and say this if she says "I thought I told you not to kiss me" "What are you gonna say next, not to fuck you."

This will get her so turned on. Be straight up with her, as you say "In the moment kinda thing." You know what you want, go get that ass.


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Hi guys, yeah just a small update. Ok I've managed to k-close the girl already. Anyway, i think for the physical intimacy part things are showing signs of progress. However, Ive encountered a small road block. Anyway, yesterday we were on a date and I was kinoing her, escalating and stuff.

So we somehow w ended up on a double deck of the bus. I started like biting her neck and groping her boobs and stuff. When she said stopped, I backed off and escalated again. She seems to enjoy it.

Thing is today we texted and she told me she isn't comfortable about what we did on the bus yesterday. She said stuffs like that shouldnt be done in public. I think its a case of buyers' remorse so how do one deal with that? I think obviously I was a bit affected. I replied her "Ok I get what you mean, I'll try to behave." Even over text, I still tried to keep things sexual isit too overwhelming?

And I think she is pmsing or something. Like she waited for me cause I had something to do. Then when Im finally done with my work (I do vehicle rentals) , I teased her something like, "I would never rent my vehicles to you. Cause I'd probably never trust you w my cars."

Then she replied "Idiott. Bye im gonna go sleep."
So I replied " Ok bye. Have a good day at work tmr. Goodnight."
She said "You really can't spoil me at all right? Ok goodnight."
I replied "Lolol. Ok goodnight. Go sleep."

THEN SHE STARTED BEING ANGRY OMG.

She said " Seriously? I waited up for you and all you do is ask me to go sleep?"
So I said " I'm sorry, honestly i thought you wanted to go to bed. Dont be angry."
She said "Nevermind, since youre like that I shall sleep then."
So I replied " I think youre in a bad mood. We shall talk about this tomorrow. Goodnight."

How do you deal with situations like that when girls are being angry w you for no reason? Thanks for the help guys


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How do you deal with situations like that when girls are being angry w you for no reason? Thanks for the help guys
You don't entertain that.

This girl clearly likes putting you in the defensive and you are falling for it each time. You acted correctly on the bus and you said she got turned on. This, to me, is a sign of a woman that is used to getting away with giving men shit. Stop entertaining her demands and temper tantrums.

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