Exactly. It's far too easy to set up a binary system for something that exists in a dozen different degrees. Personally I say there is absolutely no issue with even getting a little buzzed. It will absolutely loosen you up if you are terrified to talk to women in bars. In that case, though, especially if you aren't used to drinking, you start by getting a bottle and hanging out with some buddies so you can figure out how much booze gets you buzzed without being sloppy.

Alcohol has existed for thousands of years and almost always has been used in the context of social settings, celebrations and ceremonies. You can either fight against it for the sole purpose of being holier-than-thou, or you can embrace it and figure out how to use it to your advantage. Hell I had a groupon like eighteen months ago that let me take a bartending class, and now I love mixing quality drinks for my friends or rando girls that come over. Those arguing otherwise either hate drinking, which is fine, or they are those zen-mode pickup dudes who think you have to have some weird holistic lifestyle for success. Gunwitch's mere existence proves that wrong lol.

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Its funny how society sees everything as creepy, weird and awkward.

Just human nature to notice things out of the ordinary. If you see your computer is doing something different, you notice. If you see a guy in an office with shorts on, you notice. If you see a guy at a bar with no friends or drink, you notice. Sometimes your assumption may be wrong, but 9 times out of 10, the guy at the bar with no drink and no friends is a weirdo.

Are you there to drink or are you there to pick up girls?

Choose.

This comes back to "core confidence"

Do you really give a fuck what people think?

9 times out of 10 when i approach a girl she has no idea if i was drinking, not drinking, have friends or dont have friends. All she sees is a confident guy staring into her soul with the sole purpose of reproduction.

lawl. :p

To ellaborate further, and the way to stop giving a "fuck" is to have a lifestyle that brings you confidence.

If you're out at the club or bar and you are not "full of yourself" and are "seeking reactions to make you feel better about yourself" It doesnt matter if you drink or not you're going to fail.

If you're out at the bar... and you really value yourself as a man, are happy, genuinely think you're cool, are doing cool things with your life that inspire you and feel awsome

Are you really going to give a shit what people think?

I don't think so.

Wolves don't concern themselves with the opinion of sheep.

The people who judge you are probably irrelevant peasants who have nothing better to do and will continue a pitiful existance of judging others including themselves until death.

They dont feed you, and they sure as hell wont be sucking your dick or paying your bills.

Concern yourself with those who boost you up and help you becoming a better version of yourself.

People who negatively judge others and go out of their way to show it will most definately stay irrelevant and pathetic for life.

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But my problem is spending money, why you telling me to spend even more on tips?

I've taken my fair share of Kratom but I've never noticed it being much like alcohol. I'd say it makes me more antisocial and want to sit down and watch South Park rather than go to a loud bar. Is there a certain type you are getting that makes you feel drunk because I would love to get that.

Lol there are several strands bro. Including one that makes you relax

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Try some phenibut.

I love this narrative.

"Don't follow the crowd, you don't need booze you need true core confidence! Now take this other substance!"

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Totally agree. I guess substance is better than not approaching at all though which I totally back the idea (Aslong as sober, prevents you from trying at all)

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