I agree with everyone. Find a new girl and keep developing yourself. Women are attracted to the behavior of men. Looks don't mean nearly as much to women as it does to men. She is just rationalizing her behavior. You're stagnating yourself with her. Keep gaming and playing the field.

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Likewise. I feel this is the realest response on here lol. I'm going to consider this case closed. After reading everyone's responses and analyzing the entire situation, I'll agree with you guys - you're all right about this situation and I'll admit I'm wrong here. There is such a slim chance of me ever being in a real relationship with this lady its really not worth it to try.

I think what I'll do is keep her around as a sex buddy/FWB for now. I'm guessing (as everyone already mentioned) she'll get with a new man eventually and things will die out between us. If she ever does anything that really irritates me such as consistently rejecting me when I make a move or if she kisses a different guy when I'm out with her or anything like that I'll probably call it quits with her right then and there. I'm sure I'll be hurt but I really do get over these things quickly and I don't see it being too big of an issue for me or my self esteem. In the meantime, she's still someone who I always have a good time with, sex or not. Of course I'm going to date other girls and will not give her priority over anyone else.

Thanks to everyone for setting me straight and being real.

Hate to break it to you, but you can change the parts of your looks that matter:

1. Brush/floss your teeth every day (smile)
2. Shower/use deodorant daily (smell)
3. Lower your body fat percentage (will create a more defined jawline, you don't need 6pack abs this is actually better to just worry about fat around your face)
4. Dress better

And as I say this, I am not suggesting you try to stay with a woman who does not want to be with you. But if you address these four things AND go find ten other women? You're golden, man.

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You just can't seem to break clean can you? This is what is gonna happen, you will have sex every now and then, you still continue to not get in the field and chase new girls because she is your ONLY source for pussy which in turn kills your drive entirely. One night, you will arrange a netflix and chill...she then cancels last minute because she is "Meeting a friend" (You know what'sup)

You then get emotional about it, get super jealous of these guy's she is seeing, you ask questions, you find the toilet seat left up in her bathroom and then you're back to updating this god forsaken thread that just won't die and no matter how hard I try, I can not bring myself to unsubscribe from it because I sometimes like to me reminded that I am not king super chode.

It's a bad idea. You know, we all know it - Cut her out of your life, FOREVER. I know you won't listen anyway.

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Text her that she's wasting your time and you're moving on.

Then cut off all contact. Disappear for two months. Lift weights every other day and get a tan.

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I already do all these things. Like I said, its things I can't control. I brush/floss/tongue scrape/mouthwash 2-3 times daily, shower every morning and before going out with anyone, have about 7% body fat (not the most muscular, but I'm fit. I have six pack abs when flexing, dress just fine.
I knew a response like this was coming lol. Ya'll are ruthless, but brutally honest...I love it haha. Like I said man, she's not my only source of pussy. I'm still in the field and going out with other girls. The reason I'm posting about this lady is because to me she's more than just a nice piece of ass. I genuinely enjoy being around her too, which is more than I can say about the majority of other girls I date/hook up with.

To me, finding a girl who's personality is compatible with my own is a rare thing. I know it doesn't seem this way, but I have very high standards when it comes to ladies. That's why I want to keep this one around. It's not only about the pussy. Its about the experiences I have. She's just a fun person to kick it with. My partner in crime. Why would I want to cut someone out of my life who is so much fun? Things are going good for me right now. Sure they'll likely go downhill in the future. I can deal with it. I have no problem cutting her out of my life for good but if she genuinely makes my life more fun, why would I want to? I'm not that emotional of a guy; I just like to analyze things. Sure I'd like it if we were together but I already understand that most certainly will not happen, and I'm fine with that.

Like I said bro, I'm considering this case closed. It can die but I'll continue to respond when people post here.

Wait...You can subscribe to threads? This is how I felt when I found out there was a chat

Hate to break it to you OP, but a greater truth has never been spoken.

You are ofcourse free to feel this backlash on your own. But if you think you can have a healthy FWB relationship with someone who, and I quote, made you "so heart broken you don't know what to do" in such a short time-span, you're deluding yourself.

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Its not like I cry myself to sleep at night or anything. It was mostly to grab attention on this thread. It was more a shock or surprise to me that feelings have changed. And I was pretty baked when I wrote the thread lol. When I write when I'm baked I tend to exaggerate a bit.

Always look at what a woman does; NOT what she says. She wants cock. Different kinds of cock. Yours. And the cocks of other guys. However, when she finds a better looking dude, she would rather ride that dude's cock; not yours.

Realize this: You think you love her because you want to 'win' her exclusively for you. Well, you can't. She's NOT contented with one cock.

For now, you still can't handle a set up like this because you still cannot control your emotions. Of course, she is attracted to you. Otherwise, she won't be riding your cock. It's just that... She's more attracted to other guys, so you take last priority among a selection of... I think... 3-5 cocks.

Take control of your emotions first OP. But for now, dump her for the sake of your peace of mind and direction in life. Your career, business, or studies should occupy 80% of your mental space. NOT this girl.

Once you have taken back control of your emotions, learn how to fuck really well so you'll minimize similar situations like this from ever happening again.

Don't get sucked into the frame of girlie head games. Make your cock stronger. Don't play head games with women. They're very good at this. Us men simply can't compete with women in the head games department. When your cock becomes stronger, all you gotta do is be NORMAL. Use your cock.

God gave you a penis. Next time, use it well.

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I know this is pretty old but I'm still talking to this girl and I just want to clarify a little bit of your post. When you say make my cock stronger, do you mean the literal act of fucking a girl? I have been told by this girl that I'm the best sex she's ever had, although she told me this in the past before things went sour. The only complaint she's given me recently since she returned was sometimes she wishes I would cum faster, or cum at the same time as she does.

As of now, things have still been okay with her. Still in the FWB mentality. She knows there's another girl I'm dating right now and she asks about her a lot which tells me she's jealous. We're going out maybe 2 times a week on average, with maybe half the times ending with sex. After reflecting more about the whole situation, FWB is the way to go. Like everyone here said, things wont work out if I make her my GF. I like her that way but I know she'd be settling for me which will never end well. I've been getting more serious with the other girl I'm dating too but I really don't see her as any type of long term thing.

Looking at my life right now: my friends/social circle is awesome, my career is great (just got another promotion and a 33% pay raise), but my love life sucks. I'm past the whole fuck a different girl every week mentality that I had in college. The only thing missing is a girl who one day I'll call my wife. I can't see any of the girls I'm talking to right now as the future misses. Back to the drawing board for me!

First of all, congratulations OP on your promotion. That's fucking awesome!

Now, back to business.

Again, always look at what a woman does; NOT what she says. When a woman says you're the best fuck of the century, always take that with a grain of salt. That's unreliable feedback.

The most reliable feedback that you fucked her good are as follows:

1. She'll cook you breakfast after the fuckfest even when you don't ask her.

2. She'll do your laundry.

3. She'll clean your house.

4. She'll mow your lawn.

5. She'll lend you $100 easily when you ask her.

If she's humming a song while doing any or all of those, you can bet your ass that you fucked her good. There's a science to this.

Most importantly, she won't go on a rampage riding an entire All American football team's cocks with bukake and cum dripping gangbang hell.

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