Rejecting a girl is the polar opposite of being needy.

It's simply a frame management stratagy. The girl is not interested so you bale out. If a woman sees you rejected by another woman it doesn't make you more attractive to her; it downgrades your perceived attraction.

I agree that this is insecure behavior. If a girl is actually watching you getting rejected and then you try to pretend that you are the one doing the rejecting is extremely transparent. You're best response is to be indifferent with charm.

Not only is it transparent, you've messed up your chances with that girl for later. Women change their mind when they realize a man's value that wasn't necessarily apparent in the beginning. This is especially true if they see you with a woman that is on the same level of attraction later on.

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You're not "pretending" anything you are doing the rejection. How does the other girl know you're being rejected? If she can hear the conversation then fair enough; indifference wins the day. This method is used in busy pubs or clubs were visual cues define the interaction.

The original method (with a few variations) was called the "dual reality strategy" back in the early 90's and is proven in field.

I'm attacking the root of the problem. You're suggestion is bandaid solutions. It's a matter of short term manipulation vs long term conditioning.

I didn't say it can't work. I will say it'll do you no good.

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It is pretending if you understand the "I'll let you know" is a rejection. If the point for doing this is in order to look like you're turning the rejection back on her. How many girls at a club or bar will reopen a conversation with you when you do this? None...because it's an insecure dick move.

You're confusing a proven method with something that's impossible to quantify. In truth, all it is is a rejection routine that helps keep your confidence level up. When you talk to other women, you won't be deflated because of one rejection. In this case it's a mask.

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1) Hot chicks get approached by so many guys that it's possible
she already moved on to another guy

2) I wouldn't text just to text her...and when you invite
her out..it should sound like you are going either way
with her or without her...you just wanted to know if
she would like to come a long

3) You need to regenerate the attraction...I would use
some preselection

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I see where you're coming from now. To clarify: "I'll let you know" is a rejection, that's understood. The turning of the rejection isn't for the sake of the girl who says "I'll let you know" she's out of the equation now and you've moved on. The point of the come back is to give a reason for the non verbal signal (the hand wave), she thinks it's being congruent with what you've just said but the message is for the benefit of observers who would downgrade your value because you've been rejected.

You don't give a shit about the original girl and don't care less if she re-opens you.

If you are a noob then yes you could back rationalise the whole episode to keep yourself in state but that's just an exaption to its true purpose.