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I get that feeling. I recently met a cool dude that has his shit together with women. Pretty cool to have a friend that's at least close to your level.
I bet. And it's not just about picking up girl, honestly, it's maybe 10% about picking up girls. I mean, I'm not on a level like some other people in this forum, or pua trainers or anything, but I'm decent enough to know, if i really want to get laid, I'm gonna get laid.
For me it's mostly about self-growth, getting your shit together, being your best self. If it's just you working towards goals, it's far far more difficult. It's like working out, if you are by yourself it's easy not to make that last rep but if another guy spots you and drags you through it you gonna do so much better. And I'm so disappointed, cause I really thought my pal is on the same wave length as me, in regards to that stuff and now I feel like he only wanted me to help him get laid.
And another thing - and again, getting way off topic, but who gives a fuck - guys in the community, or even guys who aren't part of the community, who get really good at that stuff, tend to lean towards the psychopathic, ego-maniacal side. I've known a few people, who had those huge energy levels, who get shit done and do their thing, no matter what gets in their way. But most of those end up so deep up their own asses, they are even worse to spend time with, than afc guys like my pal.