So Ive been texting this girl for the past week and she invited me over to her dorm and we hooked up (didnt f close because she wants to wait) we started talking and I told her about how I didnt want a relationship and we got into some really intimate conversation she started sharing personal things with me...she told me shes also seeing another guy which I said i dont care because im seeing other girls and im not looking for anything serious anyways she starts crying and tells me that shes confused about her feelings and how shes been fucked over alot, shes looking for a relationship but shes also never had a real relationship before (her longest was 5 months) so I text her to hang out the next day and she says shes still confused about her feelings and I said i get that and Ill give her some space I havent texted her since what should my next move be?

Since you said you would give her some space, just give her space. Just understand that you have backed out and left her open to the other guy that probably didn't give her that option.

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did i fuck up by leaving her open to the other guy? should i refrain from doing that in the future with other girls?

That depends entirely on what you want. If you want this girl and she is attracted to you and another guy, if you back off the other guy has the advantage. If you don't want to compete, then you didn't fuck up. If you're hoping that she'll realize that your the better option by shutting her out, then you've fucked it up.

I look at it like this. Every girl I go out with already has another guy chasing her and to me he is irrelevant.

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I really wanna f close this one though what should I do at this point or is it too late?

Try to get her to go out with you again. If she agrees, you have a chance. If she doesn't, it's probably too late.

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I should probably add that she told me the other guy is also not looking for a relationship but she thinks she can change his mind so i think i may still have a chance with her

A chance for what with her? And does she think you want a relationship with her?

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a chance to f close and no i told her I dont want one

Netflix and chill. Bro Netflix and chill.

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Proceed with caution. These are how some rape accusations first develop. It happened to my friend and it started out with the woman being "confused" after sex.

You both don't even want the same thing. You just want to bang her, you've basically told her that (I don't want a relationship) and here she is telling you she wants a relationship.

You guys don't want the same thing and you wonder why it's causing confusion?

Oh p-lease.

Confused after sex. What? did she have some sort of retardation?

"Halp ive been raped I had consensual secs but now im confuse pls"

Christ.

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