Hey

Looking for some thoughts for this situation

K closed a freshman girl at a university party, got her number and went for a walk a couple of days after. She texted me after the walk and said it were nice to meet me again. We texted a bit everyother day, and she started sending long texts about funny stuff she observed. We agreed to a movie night, and thats where things got a bit wrong.

She came over and I had made some dinner and she bought snacks for the movie. We had quite some fun during the dinner, we got alot of stuff in comment. When it were movie time she choose the corner spot and kept her legs tugged in(correct me if this doesnt make sense It were like she closed herself to me a bit, during the movie we laughed and talked, she changed position so here legs were at my direction - making it impossible for me to do any kind of kino. Did some friendly touching once a while but that were it. At the end of the movie we just talked instead of watching it and she moved a bit closer so I could start some very light kino. At this time we are still having a laugh - but her legs are still in the way if I should go in for a kiss. After a half hour like this I ask if we should watch a second movie - We were having a conversation about movies on Netflix. She says she has to get home and go to the bathroom, when she comes back she sits on the edge of the couch, like she is trying to distance herself from me - We talk for 10 minutes more before she says its time to get home. Where I reply with thats probably a good idea.

Neither of us has texted since date night which were yesterday. She is a shy and a bit geeky girl but quite cute. When we talked she said she didnt like to be touched and needed to maintain her private space when she went out.

Im Having a hard time figuring out if she is interestet in me or I just blew it. What would you guys advice me in doing? Right now im more inclined to stop texting and just be casual to her when we meet at university and treat her like I treat my friends. And comments on my game is also more than welcome, I know I did some stuff which probably wasnt the smartest, but some others view on it would without doubt be usefull for me

Thanks in advance

Overthinking.

Stop trying to get make it perfect.

Just go for the kiss. Tickle her, pillow fight her, pretend to go to the toilet/get a glass of water then come back to her and position yourself for the kiss, 'light kino' achieves NOTHING. Make an OVERT move to seduce her.

Stop blaming her leg positions. Make the move or some other guy will.

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You are probably right. Normally I doesnt have that many problems with f- or k-closing when we end in my couch. But those are normally girls who are alot more extroverted.

So what would you do now? Still over thinking - sorry

And thanks for the pictures, really made it clear what netflix and chill is

Do the same again but grab your balls this time. I currently call it 'Amazon Prime Movies and Chill'.

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Followed your advice and asked her over for movie night again - after texting her a bit. Her responds was that she would love to, but to be clear it were just as friends.

How should I respond to this? I might be overthinking it again, but we are both part of some of the same groups at university.
Im thinking of either go along the way of telling her im really not looking for more friends or just saying something like sure, I didnt feel the chemistry neither, even though we had fun and shared similar interests.

What do you think of that? Or do you have another responce which would be preferable? After getting laid yesterday and not being so focused on k-closing, I got the point where she is not girlfriend material for me, mostly due to the fact that she doesnt like children and doesnt what it.

Dude what in the fuck are you talking about?
What the hell does wanting children have to do with someone being girlfriend material or not? Are you looking to get married at age 24?

Anyway, I don't know much about your previous interactions but the fact is that you got yourself friendzoned before the first movie even happened.
If you wanna be just friends then tell her "Yeah, sure. BFFs for life". And then be friends.
If you don't want a friend off of her then simply tell her "No, nevermind then. We're still cool, but a BFF is not what I wanted out of you". And that's all there is to it.

The situation is already played itself. All you need to do is figure out how you want it to end, but don't kid yourself into thinking you can "escape the friendzone". It never really happens and even when it does, the time and effort is simply not worth it.
Focus on other girls.

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