Logically, if i could attract a woman who by most people standards would be a 9/10.

I would feel like i would have a high success rate with women who are less attractive, successful, worse social skills, etc.

But i dont. I have a fairly high rejection rate with girls that I find just "attractive enough" or "cute" even when they have poor careers or w/e.


it doesnt make sense to me the gorgeous girl with a great career would approach me and pursue me, yet the nannies or secretaries i meet on Tinder or at the local bar have always been meh.

I realize attraction is subjective, but I woudl still think if i had enough going for me to attract someone amazing, i would be attracting alot higher percentage of women that have less going for them.

The issue this causes me, is that i get anxiety in these relationships, as i have a harder time believing they are real due to the sheer amount of rejections from girls who i honestly didnt view as that great of catches/have much going for them.

Ok bro i think you might need to look at this problem from a different perspective.
Average girls get hit on ALL THE TIME! Of course you won't have the success you are expecting, the girls you are chasing have literally a million options!
My advice is to forget about them and focus only on what you want, if you want a 9/10 dont settle just keep approaching 9s and 10s until you have success.

honestly, i dont need a girl that hot. After a certain level of attraction to me, its all the same. Like I can tell the difference between a 9 and a 7, but i dont get anything out of it, so dont care if the girl is a 9 or 7 to me.


I guess i feel i would have more in common, more compatable with a cute girl with a decent job. Then a girl with fake tits, a huge salary, and instagram page looks like she is a rock star traveling the world

Humans all have different preferences. There's the mystery solved for you!

There's your problem.

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