I was making out with this girl I know in the backseat of my car. We inadvertently parked on the far ends of the parking lot apart from each other, and I agreed to take her back to her car after we made out a bit. She was cool with kissing, but I was obviously trying to escalate further. Following my rule of "No's mean yes" I kept trying to grope her and finger her, suck on nipples, etc. She started resisting pretty hard and eventually was like: "Can you take me back to my car now?" And repeated that several times.

Guys are always asking about how to push/pull, create attraction, escalate, etc. I used a tactic which allowed me to do all of that and continue to escalate. At first I was fighting to pin her down, shove my hands down her pants, and subdue her. Then once I had her pinned, I'd let up completely and sat back on the other side of the car and put my arms on the rests like I was completely relaxed and no longer interested in touching on her. That is a key move because it allows her to feel safe again and shows her that I'm not completely out of control.

After that I told her to come to me and kiss me, which she did. Then she kind of climbed on top of me and we made out a little more and I felt her up without any resistance. I wanted to share this story not to brag, but to give an example of how you can forcefully escalate yet continue to keep the attraction going and get the girl to do what you want.

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The whole 'resistance' thing is in fact a form of shit test , isn't it ?
I'm guessing that her resistance was just a form of testing you (weather you can or cannot control yourself) so she can assert weather she can or cannot feel safe with you,as you said.

So yeah, do you think you would've had the same success if you would've pulled before she asked you to take her back to her car ? or do you think it's always a good ideea to take the "no means yes" so far ?

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The last couple girls I've been with I have used that tactic on, but they were both foreign. I think it works better on foreigners since they are more submissive.

I don't think it is a shit test. It's simply a way of manipulating them to do what you want. The same way LMR isn't a shit test, you still encounter resistance and have to manipulate the girl into not doing that.

Regarding "going too far", you can usually get a feel for what the girl will tolerate. Because women will flip out once you cross their threshold and you'll know right away you took it too far. But often times you can push it to the brink and then right when you start to cross the line, completely back off. It causes a kind of yo-yo effect with their emotions. One minute the guy is giving them all this sexual interest and kind of scaring them, then the next minute he's disinterested and they are completely safe again.

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Yes this actually makes a lot more sense now.Thanks for the reply. It was a good one too.

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