Here is how the situation went down.

went out with girl, she showed up 3 beers deep unknown to me. we hook up.

she text me the next day asking me out for two days later. day of she ignores my confirmation text for 8 hours. so i text that im making other plans. she text like 3 times that she thought she texted back and asked when we can hang again.

we go out the next friday. thought we had a good time. we kissed. she stopped and said lets not go to fast. i told her no worries. no pressure. she ask me out for the sunday following. she calls me up and says she has a migraine and ask to reschedule. i say ill let her know. text her two days later and we go out.

she is kind of upset all date.and pretty much just talks about work. i go for kiss anyways and she kisses for 2 seconds and stops. she then says she has to go. she ask me out for the following sunday on the way out.

Decision i made here. was to ask her whats up. I guess it was a ballsy move. but my thought process was she didnt want to kiss on date 3. physcially this is going backwards. no need for date 4.

she responds that she just thinks i only want the physical. and not get to know her. I tell her thats not true. she says she stillw ants to hang out sunday. and i pretty much tell her i dont know if we are on the same page with the whole physical thing as i feel people should be wanting to kiss and shit by date 3.

she responds that im a bad kisser.

now that the back story is done.

I actually do believe her. Ive had multiple situations where i was having fwb with girls who wouldnt want to kiss me. now im getting older. havent had anything too long term. and this feels like a big issue that i need to work on as girls wont be forgiving about this .

So i pretty much need to practice, but at my age it may be tougher to find girls who will be willing to put up with poor kissing long enough for me to get good lol. how do i fix this

How can you be a bad kisser?

Do you kiss like this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkFV_sAOkWo

Seriously, how hard can it be? Sounds like a lame excuse to dump you to be honest.

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Have you considered bad breath or bad dental hygiene?

"Bad kisser" sounds like an excuse for "I don't want to kiss you"

ive had other girls who woudlnt kiss me during sex. so it leads me to believe its true. i feel like i use to much tongue

If you feel that way, then perhaps chill out with the tongue?

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well i never reallyu thought about it to this girl brought it up. and it made me reflect on other girls in the past and their responses. so i was just asking for advice on how to fix lol. some people say it cant be fixed

My ex girlfriend use to think I was a good kisser. We stayed friends after we broke up. But, when she first started seeing her new boyfriend she wasn't very impressed with how he kissed. She told me that was awkward for her because he didn't kiss as good as I did. But a few weeks later she changed her mind and told me that now she actually likes the way he kisses and now thinks he's a better kisser than me.

Personally, I think that when a girl considers a kiss a good kiss, it's because it's similar enough to the way she kisses and so it is comfortable for her. It's somewhat familiar or what she's use to. And when she considers it a bad kiss, it's because it's not at all like how she is use to kissing, which makes it uncomfortable or awkward for her. That's why I was the better kisser in the beginning while her kisses with her new boyfriend were awkward and uncomfortable. A few weeks later after she got use to how he kisses, and got more comfortable with it, her opinion changed.

I've heard it said that when you're kissing a girl for the first time, you can initiate it, but once you're actually kissing, you should take it slow and let her lead the kiss. Let her take the lead and mimic what she does. How far apart are her lips? What does she do with her tongue? Do what she does, follow her lead. The more you can kiss the way she does, the more comfortable she'll probably be with it, and the more likely she will be to declare you a good kisser.

Do you make a tornado in her mouth with your tongue? Do you attempt to eat her face? Do you rarely ever brush your teeth?

There's a degree of compatibility between people in the sense that some girls prefer more tongue, others less and others almost not at all. So if you use it on someone who likes having it used, you'd be a good kisser. If you're using it on a girl with different preferences.. You get the point.

But to actually be called out for being bad at kissing you must be doing something out of the ordinary variance.

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