Hey guys I'm fairly new to this need a bit of help.

I go to university and in one of my classes there was this hb9 that kept looking at me and smiling. She would constantly stare and sometimes catch me starring. I decided to approach her and since I'm new I used the mystery method I assumed a2 to be completed because I had gotten ioi's (right?). I used a direct opener saying "hey I just wanted to let you know you looked really elegant and I wanted to come say hi (gamblers approach)" she says thanks and immediately complements me and asks if I come to class from work. Anyways we hit it off turns out she pretty much qualified herself. Anything k would say she would jump at and try to build rapport. I got her number in under 10 minutes.

Waited a couple days and texted her. First she waited a really long time before answering but as it got later in the night she started texting faster. I tried to throw in a little sexual escalation but she completely ignored it. She asked me how old I was (21) I told her and she told me she had just turned (24). I decided to friend zone her before she did that to me ... I said too bad you're older I would've asked you out but we can still be friends. She agreed but continued to build rapport.

Wtf do I do now??? I'm seeing her this Thursday

any tip would be helpful guys.

Just because she ignited your attempt to sexualize doesn't mean she lost interest, and just because you gave her the "friend" line doesn't mean you friend zoned yourself. There was absolutely no reason to try to do that tp begin with.

Anyway, just pretend that didn't happen, hit her up in a day or two and make plans to do something. Do not have prolonged text convos, just male plans to go out, isolate her, escalate and get it done

Tried to set up plans :/ but she never got back to me it's been over 24 hours she didn't respond to the text. I'm guessing it's a lost cause?

There's a reason calling works better.

The thinking on this in the pickup world is slowly changing. A lot of veterans now text instead of calling and think that's just fine. In many circumstances it is...

If you'd called, she wouldn't have the opportunity to ignore you. You'd have gotten your answer right there, and you'd know (be it a yes, or a no) and then you could move on with your life instead of pining over the fact she hasn't replied to you, and checking your phone every 5 mins

As guys have a game also girls do, occasionally we don't want to look desperate and then we don't answer for few hours or even days. Quick responses (like in minutes) after text was send shows high interest into guy, too high.

If she was interested into you and if she really lost interest, then most likely you said to her something wrong...there is thin line between being sexual and creepy.

And with older girls, calling is better, texting is for teens, and it takes too much time and doesnt give you a real insight into reaction of person. Sometimes behind nice phrase in text is hidden totally different meaning, that couldnt be hidden in call and especially in personal.

Just give it a break and wait till u see her.

GL

This girl is so weird... I was in class and she calls me and I'm the most flirty voice I've ever heard ask me if I want anything from Starbucks... I say no and ignore her during class at this point I've decided to show her I've lost interest ... After class she lingers around waiting for me to talk to her but decided to ignore her ... She ends up texting me ... Keep in mind she completely ignored my text on hanging out ... She finishes off by sending this text after I tell her I'm super busy :

If there's anything you need, let me know! Wouldn't want you to burn out.

Dude I had the same exact thing and from what I researched and analyzed myself it's a textbook lead on. This hole has put you on a waiting list either to be in the friend zone, a potential boyfriend or completely forgotten altogether. My advise would be to forget this hole if your the type to get attached or to use her in that class to project that you are preselected.

Friend zoning her before she friend zones you has to be the most retarded concept i've heard relating to women. R.C. made a great analogy when he said, " Thats like killing yourself because you think someone is about to kill you". As a man if you're going make a decision, you stand by it. Your word is all you have. So if you friend zone a girl, you mean it. And you stick to being her friend.

Age is no where near as relevant as you think. Your maturity level will mean a lot more than your physical age. Would a chick care if you made one million dollars a year working for mickie dee's vs making minimum wage working for Google? The age is the external. You get through that easy as she gets to know you.

I've been with women of all ages. Younger girls are usually only good for a couple lays and then I move on. I tend to only take older women serious unless i come across a young girl who's maturity is beyond her age.

Anyway, on Thursday just go for seducing like normal. A girl can only friend zone you if you make her feel friend. Based on the way you interact with her and/or your lack of escalation. A woman doesn't friend zone you, you friend zone yourself. She just reflects what you make her feel.

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Ha, beat me to it.

OP what the fuck? she's obviously intrigued by you. There's a million reasons for which she may have ignored that text of yours. And here you are basing your entire identity around her on that. Stop being reactive, will you? It's way to early to start interpreting "signs".

Take Eddie's advice and do right by it. Make her feel lover, not friend.

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