I've done some searches, and haven't come up with any good answer on this issue.

I have a really hot friend who has been into me for awhile. She was engaged for a few years, and was into me through that process, but I didn't do anything (it was a messed up engagement, I knew it wouldn't last). A few months ago she broke up with her fiance, and is now much more into me.

Last night we were out at a bar, and things were going well. She was very close to coming back to my place, when one of my guy friends comes up and totally cock blocks me. He's a nerdy, overprotective guy, and she finds his over-protection annoying. However, he is persistent about it, so it works.

He comes up to me, and goes on and on about how she's still in love with her fiance, and she just doesn't know it, and I should stop, and blah blah blah. He did the same thing when she was still engaged, and I WASN'T flirting with her, and he does it to a few of his other female friends!

So she's all on board for anything, but I need to figure out how to neutralize him. Any suggestions? Thanks ahead of time!

Been there,done that. He's madly into her and that's his extreme afc way of acting.

Either straighten him out by intimidation or just turn the chick against him.

In my case I got really annoyed and told him something along the lines of

"I'm sorry do you this girl is retarded ? No ? Then why do you feel the need to talk in her place ?Either sit the fuck down or stop being a pathetic wimp.Until then,she can make her own decisions."

This girl went through a recent brakeup with some random asshole and was kinda into me. He was constantly reminding her about how much of an asshole his last guy was,implying I am the same or worse. Some pathetic attempt to somehow self-qualify.I don't really know what the hell he was thinking.

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Agree with OP, call him out on it, being a pussy, he is sure to back off. (no HB around) "What's your deal are you trying to fuck her?"

(HB is there) "If your that concerned, maybe YOU should marry her! I think you guys would make a cute couple." Big happy smile the whole time.

(HB there) "Awww isn't that cute I think -Cock Blocker- has a crush on you!"

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Bro, that happened last night focus on today. Do you have her number? If you do invite her to get some coffee, it does not really matter what you do. Escalate, then invite her over to your place. If you now she is that into you and you almost took her to your place then she should be down. Before anything ask yourself what do you want from her. Do you want her to be your girlfriend, fuck buddy, open relationship, ect. Also you might loose her as a friend if she does not feel the same way, but that's the risk you will have to make. Good luck. Peace

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Yea, sometimes you just need to level with the person, especially if they are your friend. Tell them that if they really liked someone, you wouldn't do what he is doing to you. Make him feel bad about being a douche.

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Thanks for the responses.

To answer questions, I do have her number, and we're casual friends.

What I ended up doing is flirty text game a day or two later, to which she said at one point "*my name* you're killing meeee." I responded by saying "oh man, we can't have that, *cock block name* would kill ME if I did that." She then asked why, and I said "cause he's like your overly protective big brother. it's cute." To which she said "oh man, that's NOT cute, it's so annoying." And things went fine from there. I had a k-close the next night.

BOOM

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What a complete waste of space, yeah I agree with everyone else, confront him about it like "whats up bro, whats your problem?", dude is supposed to be your friend, friends dont cockblock, in fact quite the opposite!!!!

similar situation happened to me yesterday. my friend comes up to me while i'm talking with this girl and all i told him was, Dude, we're trying to have a conversation here (i looked and sounded serious when i told him). he walks away and i proceed with my game.

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Sorry but that just sounds unfriendly, you could have introduced the two.

The fact he came there doesn't imply he wanted to cockblock you or worse steal the girl.

Or there's a problem with the way you label people "friends" here...

he's actually my best friend but a terrible wingman and they already knew eachother.
i could go on explaining this but all i'll say is don't judge unless you actually know what's going on.

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