There's this girl I like who always rejects my requests to hang out together but does want to hang out when other friends come too. I think she is interested in me however, although she has a crush on someone else. She knows I have had a crush on her. I don't know if she knows I still have a crush on her though.

I decided not to mail or text her for a while after my latest request (to see if she would come back to me because I usually give her lots of attention), and when I saw her today from a distance I could see her looking at me in a special way, I can't describe it, but it wasn't a normal way to look at the other sex. I think the look said something like: "I want you now, get at me again, but this time as a man and not as a friend". I'm not sure though. Since I don't have her number even though we're friends (I don't really use my mobile phone a lot) I had the idea of asking her for her number or giving her mine through Facebook since I can't see her a lot this week. Can someone please give me advice as to how to ask for her number or what to do? I could get her number ''as a friend'' easily, but that will only make my friendzone situation worse. The message should hint at something more but shouldn't scare her away from giving me her number. Thanks in advance!

If she rejects your requests to hang out together , just the two of you , you're clearly not ready to #close her as more than a friend.I dont even think she sees you even as a friend. Friends hang out together. You're more of a groupie. You know , that friend she's comfortable around when other friends are around , but not quite enough to be alone with you ?


Anyway , the fact that you give her attention and that she knows you got a crush on her are not helping you AT ALL.


I would suggest a freeze - out and then you can restart your game on her , PROPERLY.
Start by acting like you dont want her anymore , you're doing great without her and make her work for your attention. Don't just give it to her. No one will ever appreciate anything that was simply given to them without any effort on their part. Or even worse , without them wanting that specific something , you understand ?

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