So tonight. I went out on the town with two of my lady friends, one married, one single. The married one was an 8, the single one was a 7. We had a couple drinks at one bar, then went to a younger scene.
I walk in, leading the other two woman with confidence. I immediately steal a chair one guy was standing next to, saying "I'm going to borrow this, it looks like you're working on your exercise for tonight anyway." Then I put it next to two other chairs, ask a two set to move out of our way cause "I'm that rude asshole who needs his space." To the right of me is a two set, a 5 and a 9.5. The 9.5 is sitting right next to me.
I forget how I opened, but I think she bumped me and I told her to calm down, addressing her friend by saying "you can dress her up, but you can't take her anywhere." They both giggled, especially the 9.5, as she agreed with me. It was on.
She was kino escalating herself, and within minutes had her arm wrapped around my arm, being all touchy and flirty. This continued throughout the night, to the point where I could run my fingers through her hair and put my arms around her with total compliance. I was going back and forth between my ladies and her and her friend. I would neg, then touch, then be laugh, and so forth. It was going smashingly.
She asked me my name. She asked me where I was from. She started qualifying herself. And then she wouldn't stop. And it wasn't in a needy way, in a "this is a fun guy who will listen" way. Sh!t. I tried to Neg her more, I built rapport with her 5 friend, and was just being super smooth but still cocky funny. However, I couldn't get out of the "nice funny guy" zone.
We were all singing karaoke, and when it was my turn I sang "Thing Called Love" by the Darkness to all 4 of the woman, with the whole bar cheering me on. They took pictures, told my friends "oh my God we love him," and so forth. I felt like Lovedrop with his whole being a fun, laid back guy gambit.
I wasn't really sure what to do next. I ended up getting 9.5s number because I wanted her to text me pictures of me with my lady friends. Later 9.5 went outside with her friend for a cig. and said "hey, watch our drinks please. thanks! I love you!" I told her "I'm not your drink sitter." She said, assuming I was going to comply, "it's only for 5 mintues," to which I said "ok, but on the 6th minute I'm done watching them. Maybe someone will roofie them and then you'll make that silly scrunchy nose face even more." She laughed a lot, as did her friend. But it felt like a fun big brother kind of laugh.
The other part was that after she found out a couple things about me, she didn't ask any more questions. She just talked about herself. This seems to be a common problem with me, even if I make them work to find out the initial things, once they do it's "blah blah blah blah" all about themselves.
I left soon after they came back from outside, as I wanted to drop my friends off. They were super lovey dovey as I left, but I knew it wasn't in a way that emoted sexual tension.
So where did I go wrong? How do I turn this fun-loving guy who the entire bar is watching, in a sexual being that would love to take you home with me...but just to sleep...cause I have to get up early
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