So I'm having a conversation with a girl I've known for some time and the conversation leads to blowjobs. It gets kind of intense and we're both enjoying the conversation, and she's getting horny talking about it.

Her: "Ohh I love doing [deepthroat/swallow/whatever]..."
Me: "Really? Not many girls are into that."
Her: "I just like to please the person I'm with"
Me: blah blah
Her: blah blah

Then there will be a pause for a second as she suddenly realizes her own sexual state and where I'm leading the conversation, and she'll look at me and say, "I'm not giving you a blowjob."

What's a good response for this?

How about: "Well ,someone has to do it. Might as well be you."


No,seriously. You cant ask these kind of questions and expect a good answer.

It all depends on how she says it. She might wanna do it but say she doesn't. She might say she doesn't and mean it. That's really something you should know from her tonality / body language / etc.


You could always go for something like " I didnt ask for one , but I like how you're thinking.'
or
"And we wasted all this time talking about it for nothing?"(joke,obviously)

It depends on how relaxed / comfortable she / the conversasion was.

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Usually when girls say something like "I'm not givin you a blowjob" they just mean "I'm not giving you a blow job right now." Most likely just an ASD to make sure you don't see her as easy meat. Just cut off the sexual vibe, check your email or something, and then re escalate and make her want the sexual attention

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Thanks - this is exactly what I was looking for. Although she said she wouldn't do it, I could tell from her body language and the way she said it that she really wanted to, I just wasn't sure of a playful way to neg her back.

"I'm not asking for one, I don't like your lips. Plus you seem like a teeth chaffer. I try to watch out for girls like you." Now you've just shit tested her! You could follow that up by: "maybe I'll ALLOW you to give me a blowjob when you've enough practice under your belt, though." Of course you're saying this half joking half serious. And then continue the conversation as it was before her outburst. Like it phased you not at all.

Yes? No?

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Say something like, "You're probably all talk no game anyway, so it's all good."

Bingo!!!

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