So I met this girl at a bar the night of the end of the world (12/21/12).

We stayed in touch via text and I took her out on a few pretty awesome dates. I helped her discover nearby towns and some nature. I even had her in my room and we hugged cuddled and watched Netflix and such.

Her background: she recently got out of a relationship (I want to say within the year). She is spiritual and I am totally NOT. She's somewhat timid but almost 30 so she's a grown woman.

I once asked her her feelings on sex (within a couple hours of meeting her, via text) and she said she considers it sacred. I have tried kissing her over and over and over, never to any luck (over the course of 2 days). Once the night I met her and again last weekend. Last weekend she was in my bed and we were cuddling. I sort of thought she just does not believe in or like kissing. I didn't stress it.

Then, yesterday I invited her to a dance party on Saturday and we had this to say:

her: U thnk Im gay. My sad joke is to become gay. Ill have to thnk bout if im ready to go down that path.

me: I don not think you're gay. I think gays throw excellent dance parties. I want you to accompany me to an excellent dance party.

me: And maybe we can do some straight stuff before or after.

her: I think im getting your hint

me: ??? What hint? Are you able to come with?

her: Swami. I just dont know. I know now that u really want to hook up. How could I hang out with you knowing that would become a scenario.

me: Oh, I get YOUR drift! (At this point, I think she's just not with it. But then I get to thinking that girls know what the fuck is up. Why have we been hanging out if not to ever have sex? Sex is a part of this whole thing. I don't know why she waits until I invite her to a lesbian dance party where she thinks I'm calling her gay to talk about how she doesn't want to have sex with me).

her (almost instantly): I get urs as well

me: (after giving this some thought and realizes it makes no fucking sense to me) Actually, I take that back. I'm clueless. But I don't think want to know what your intetpretation is of your or my drift. (Now at THIS point, I'm like fuck it all! She's frustrating. But to her credit, I haven't heard from her since.)

I am puzzled. Can any of you decipher this?

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The girl is difficult, she was difficult from the beginning, I dont sign up for these type of woman anymore, too much work. If you do want to work this hard avoid these type of woman.

Actually, on second read I think she is difficult AND you are in the friend zone. Probably best to eject.

She's complicated. If you enjoy having your mind full of fuck then hell yeah , stick around. Otherwise for the love of god ,find another woman.

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For the record, I agree with you all and always have about this gal. I only wanted to have sex with her (after I found out she's a nutcase) because she's pretty and I don't have any women in my stable at the moment.

Because she was the only gal, I decided to give her a whirl. But then it got weird. I just wanted to know if maybe a real pua could give me some insight.

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