so i walk her back to the train, i tell her get home safe she says she'll text me.
Now - she doesnt text me that night so i just text her in the morning have a safe flight
Stop doing this. Girls aren't retarded, fragile flowers. They know how to drive and get home, and how airports work. You don't know this girl, yet you're acting like her boyfriend.
And you didn't text her in the a.m. to wish her a safe flight, you texted her because you were insecure about her not texting you the previous night.
Women can smell this.
and dont forget your tarot reading card ( on our first date, i pretended to be a palm reader and read her hand about the life lines of love, life, career etc).
Ugh. The "stay safe" lines and now a throwback to tiny detail she probably doesn't care about.
Needy text. And a morning one too, which makes it look like you don't have a job.
Me texting her is a possible mistake but i thought it was fine. I'd say about 4 days go by (she mentioned shell be doing bridesmaid stuff or whatever for the wedding fri/sat) so we don't talk about 3-4 days, i end up texting a pic/video of me at this super sick water park on sunday). F close date was Tues BTW.
So a woman doesn't return your needy text, and then you send her a selfie? I have literally walked away from women for this kind of shit.
I say something like : can we be honest for a min? i had a great time with you, etc but im stumped to why we stopped talking (my guess BTW was either the sex (i made sure to please her/foreplay for 30-45 min, the sex itself lasted much less but it wasn't bad, im a fit guy but i was being paranoid or it was another dude in the picture)
You just walked off Logic Plank and took a dive into The Neurotic Sea. There is no reason to act this way...it's emotionally-uncentered.
-she replies that shes being an ass and put me on the back burner, she met a guy at the same time as me and she doesnt know how to go about this, she has anxiety that shes met 2 great guys and potentially might have to let one go. she apologizes for being a coward and not telling me anything, i dont deserve this etc. you guys get the picture.
She doesn't owe you anything, you're not in an exclusive relationship.
All i replied to this was basically that shes a great girl, she should follow her heart and do what makes her happy. she replied with a paragraph how she feels the same about me, she enjoyed everything with me and this is a hard choice for her etc.
Her choice was made. She ignored you texts, and fucked another guy.
I guess, I'm wondering if anyones ever met someone where you had a great connection. Everything was great and you possibly could see it going long term down the road even if this was just 2-3 weeks.
Soooo needy. 2-3 weeks and it's already long term talk?
And how is it "great" if she ignored you and fucks another guy? how is that a great connection?
This is probably just a vent but It just hurts, i know ill be fine, i know i need to see more girls but i still think about it. She left the last message, i've been NC with her but i guess hoping in the back of my mind she changed her mind about all this and msged me again. I really liked her.
That's all, thanks for reading.
Sucks, bro. Such is the social game. 9's and 10's will give you one chance usually to blow their minds in bed, and to not be needy.
You may have failed both.
I noticed that you spent a lot of time yapping over text, and less time inviting her over for sex, and to have conversations with her in person.
A lot of guys use their phones and text with women like they're "playing a fish", but it's fucking nonsense. Men win in person.
you had her, then talked her out of her attraction via over-texting.