Hi guys,

So as most of you guys already know, I do a lot of approaches in the gym.

So last week I spoke to this cute asian girl, just really quickly general chat about accents.

Saw her again this week, waited till I got my workout done (thats what I am there for- to actually workout - but cant ignore the hunnies), got on the treadmill pretended I didnt know how to use the machine....heres the convo in a nutshell:

She remembered what we were talking about the previous week, "something about accents" she said .....more general discussion about her graduating what program she is in, her favourite food (to use to setup a date), best sushi shop in town.

Then she was like I dont each much sushi b/c I am watching my figure, I mentioned " dont worry you have a fine figure....dont worry about putting on weight"

Then she tells me she volunteers at an old age home, then I throw in " wow I bet those old people cant wait to see you!" , "If I was in that old age home, I would love for you to take care of me"... (cheesy sh!t) , Then she tells me you look fit I dont think You'll be in an old age home..... I reply "oh thank you ......lots of girls think im fit .....she giggles and says, "You know what I mean", so my comeback is " yeah you mean I am good looking and cute"

This was where I kinda f'd up: I never had my phone on me...then I was like maybe I should get your number.........she replies " I'll think about it" then Im like ok.

I go finish my set, after like 20mins I see her sitting on the window sill, I go back and am like did you think about it? We chat some more, I do my move where I put the phone on her leg and get her number...I ask her what she doing tommorrow, and she says just at the gym (she already told me she is done school and does not work), im like lets go to the lake just for 5min......she replies "I just met you, maybe after I see you at the gym a few times"

So I never texted her yet..........what should my first text be? Sorry I am rusty.


Thanks

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Look, never try to forcefully shove your attractiveness down girls' throats.

It's fine to say cheeky things like "Yeah you know I'm cute". I encourage being playful.

However what I strongly dis-encourage is things like "Yeah lots of girls say I'm fit". At that point you're just being tryhard, especially with someone you just met. It's also a sign of insecurity if you need to verbally convince her that you're "good enough".

Also if you're gonna approach and ask for numbers it's probably smart to have your phone on you. That should be common sense.

Aside from all this, instead of asking us what to do the work for you, try coming up with a text on your own and asking for an opinion on that.

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Yah true. lol I just used "heres the gift of my number " from your guide text.....


but bro its the same vicious cycle over and over.....meet girl, get number, she either never responds or a few texts then disappear = frustrating!!!

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Maybe the'r repulsed by the oversize bold type,

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Just call her bro.


Didn't like how overly complimenting you were being, but I also do know its not what you say its how you say it. When a girl says " She'll think about it" she's not actually going to think about it, all she means is "I would like you to invest more into me first". Your returning to her 20 mins later was just that; more of you investing. So when she says " Maybe after I see you a few more times" she's again saying "After you invest a little more".

However, you have to know your worth as well; and you can not be shy about challenging a girl with what you believe your value to be. 2 mins of investing can be 2 hours of investing for someone else. Its all about what you and they perceive your value to be. When a girl says " I'll think about it" i'd probably look at her like she was crazy and say " Just give me your phone. I'll put it in and text myself"


So in nutshell:

1) When you are it, you don't have to say it.

2) Take control: Challenge a woman who is challenging your value. If you allow her to dictate your value by making you wait, you'll end up waiting in the friend zone.

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This is a quality post. Thank You.

Btw how do I "challenge" a girl ? Can you give me an example.

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She never replied back to text, she never picked up phone.... I got the machine , I never left a message.

Nah , I dont wanna be an harasser and keep texting and calling......time to meet more girls.

I need to make a female friend.....builds super value.

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Hey everybody , she just replied back saying " we can hangout on Saturday" I hope its in the afternoon, b/c I am busy in the evening...

Wow , I am sooooo nervous, yes I did read RC's guide.... does anyone know any good threads for first dates?

I plan on taking her to the lake, their is a private lookout tower where I usually like to makeout with girls...


What tips you guys have?

I dont want to blow this I need to fuck this girl!!!

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Already wrote a first date thread. Its stickied at the top of the closing/day 2's section.

Here: closing-and-day/topic189168.html

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The most important tip for you is to chill out. You're way to emotional over a girl you don't even know.

You need to relax and have some composure.

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I know, but I am kinda desperate...... something I need to address in the sticky point forum...

cant stop thinking about her.

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She will pick up on that most likely, it's a DLV for sure. Do your best to fake it till you make it (confidence wise) but at the same time don't get so overboard and try hard like you have been. Balance, friend.

You mean just act , like I am willing to walk away at any time?

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As EddieFews puts it you should have an 'abundant mentality'. At least fake it for now, believe you can have any woman any time. Like you said, be willing to walk away at any time, she needs to meet your standards. I think where you will have trouble with this is by becoming too try hard. There is no need to sell yourself to them. That sums it up, don't have the mentality that you are trying to sell yourself to them. It demonstrates neediness, desperation and low value.