I came here to ask for PUA advice..
And you got it.
all I'm getting so far is UNNEEDED lifestyle advice and getting insulted for no reason(crazy, pathetic).
I took the time to help you awaken from your state of denial. It's necessary, my friend. The sooner you have a "realization" and increase your level of self-awareness (IE an ability to see context and situations outside of yourself), the sooner you will improve and get the women you want.
Like 95% of men, you are emotionally-uncentered. The flowers and apology were totally inappropriate and are a result of your insecurity and fear.
Facts are simple: super woman up for grabs.. will a guy from the community have a fighting chance(believe me, the IOI-s ARE there)
Do you know how to tell when a woman is super into you?
She unzips your pants.
Everything else is bullshit and fantasy.
or will a random guy from her "suck-up" circle end up with her, as it's "normal" in society?
No, that's not normal. The suck up guys are always back-slotted for dominant males. The "suck up" men are called "orbiters". And guess what? You are one! You apologized unnecessarily to her, and went way, way out of appropriate social norms to send her flowers, lol. You are the suck up guy. You ARE the orbiter
. You are the nice guy who puts her on pedestal and who kisses her ass. YOU ARE the guy who schemes and posts on forums about her, instead of finding other attractive women.
Your inability and lack of balls to express your desires to your wife (open relationship or divorce), carries itself over into gaming other women, where you aren't congruent at all with your desires...and in fact you apologized for wanting to sleep with her.
NEVER apologize for being a man, or for having a dick.
It's not about magic tricks or schemes to get women. It's about personal evolution, it's about making yourself as attractive mentally and physically as you can.
How can you sleep with super hot women if you don't even have the CONFIDENCE to tell your wife what you desire?
Until then, every socially valuable woman (IE not obese) will put you right into friend zone, because you lack confidence and congruency. It is, and will be the gaping hole in your game until its fixed.