I never add them. If we have mutual friends i will post comments on the mutal friends page to DHV and usually the target will add me after 1-2 posts.

I do sometimes give out my myspace name to a target, like last night i gave an old chick my myspace after having her message me on AIM, then come to talk to me even tho her away was that she was sick. So i rewarded her by giving her my myspace then hours later accepting the invite that came within mins.


Essentially i try and avoid anything online that intially displays intrest. Instead i try to use mutual ties to DHV and get them intrested.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

don't send them.
whenever a boy sends me one i think its kind of desperate..

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-femfatale

"..All you can do is put on an appearance of confidence sometimes. And after a while, others will start to believe it.. And then you die."

Dont. everything works out better if you dont. you seem desperate to talk to her.