I've been meaning to write something like this for quite some time and give people my version of events as to how i got into this art. First off my main goal into coming to this community is like any other goal i have in life, wether its acting, or music or business/self promotion, IT, whatever ive done, its always to be ' THE BEST i can be '.

My Journey has just started, but the more i shape it and unique approach every set ,target and situation, the more i gain power to call this art my own. First off ill concentrate mainly on getting started. Many PUA wannabe start off just like me with alot of limiting beliefs or arrogant statements and ridicules rules they put on themselves.

Such may include.
Shes not my type anyway.
I'm fat, tall, skinny, bald, short.
She was a bitch! and not that good!
She will hate me, im not good looking, or smart or fun enough.
I don't day sarge, i only night sarge.
I can only approach sets that want to be approached in the appropriate places.
The list goes on... and on.. and on.. You all get the point right?

So get rid of those beliefs, the BEST way i found to do that is to listen to NLP. Ross Jefries has this awsome series of tapes that deals with exactly that. look into it. Also theres Dr.love's radio show that has alot of free downloadable air time pieces. He really drills how a man should be, and how he should set his outlook and values in life.

Once you've done with the basic emotional side off things, your job is to get out of your house. You need to go out shopping anyway, you need to buy PUA gear and clothes, shoes. Lots of work to be done.

Shopping

PUA Gear:
According to the best you need all of the following.

One Interesting item at least. That girl can IOI you for.
A pen
A mini pocket book.

PUA Clothes.
Walk in a fashion store, and first thing you should do is talk to the chick, and say something along the lines off ' you look like you may know your stuff missy, why don't you show me some cool pants, and a shirt, lets try some out '. Get her to show you and dress you up, at the end get her number with a proper number close and tell her you may stop by for some more advice. Which of course you might want to do anyway, so its a genuine statement.

Go into a shoe store, repeat the same. Get opinions about things you bought form girls all around, do your openers, and your number closes.

Phew. Thats all just in one day! What a day, you would probably have got at least one number, and felt like a king.

Night Club

Now that all this is done, its time for you to head to a nightclub, prefb that night. if you got some of their numbers try to pivot them to come out as friends to chill for the night. If you do or you don't get that, it doesn't really matter.

When your going to the club. Go early!, and than just sit in the most populated place, and don't talk. Just look at everyone around you, and pay attention in particular to everyone in the club and the fact that no one cares or will notice you. And know that if you mess up a set, well too bad, the girls will probably just walk off, worst case scenario, so there is nothing to worry about.

When your done all that your ready to start your journey.
Everywhere you go, anywhere you go, if you can open and get a girl to laugh or give you some IOI, know that the game is on, and you are always ready! And always go for anything or anyone you like!

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Updated.

Here is some cool ways to demonstrate value, and really stand out! Make sure you do your own, that reflects your personality, as this is what i use and do, and anyone is welcome to copy it. I sometimes ask opinions about my shoe laces, or my funky glasses, and i get some cool IOI's.

Sometimes theyd grab my little IOI toy say how cute it was ra ra, and id clamp it on their ear, (it has magnets on its hands) and do more hands on kino. Or use it to lock them in as i forward merge.

My pen is designed to write on human skin! theres some really crappy pens out there! make sure you get a good one, so you can draw all over her and do stupid things!

Shoes, in my case i like vans, most girls are NOT a fan of those type of shoes, but screw them i have shoe laces, i wonder what they think? and well no guy is good with shoes, so they can take me shoe shopping and teach me a thing or two



When you do all that, you've got it all, than sarge! Have a look at this post i made, that allows you to do some situational openers! Read some, and field test.
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http://pick-up-artist-forum.com/d-a-y-g ... t2018.html

Heres BELOW a post about phone game, and meetup.

http://pick-up-artist-forum.com/here-vp8299.html#8299

- Impact

PS: All give me a vote, tell me if this helps or not.

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I like that fish charm...
Pretty fucking sweet.

Whered you get it?

So what do you do with your toy?
Just carry it in your pocket or what??


Like the funky laces.
Whered you get those at?

And the DC's..Those are nice.


With the shoes and laces, what do you wear for your shirt and such to be congruent with the laces.??

I like that fish charm...
Pretty fucking sweet.
Whered you get it?
Here in Aus, we have alot of places to get interesting things, you just have to go out and look for it. Try chick shops they have some cool interesting looking charms and neckless. Ask the girls what they think about how it looks on you! run openers


So what do you do with your toy?
Just carry it in your pocket or what??
No! its strapped on my belt, so all the girls can see it, they sometimes IOI me for it, or grab it, or ask me about it! i usually escalate kino by strapping it on a chicks ear, so on so forth..


Like the funky laces.
Whered you get those at?
You can get alot from Ebay! especially fluro once!

And the DC's..Those are nice.
yup


With the shoes and laces, what do you wear for your shirt and such to be congruent with the laces.??
Whatever, the whole point is for the girl to see them, so you have to try to reveal them! they can IOI you for them, or you can do a opener using your shoe's and laces.

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have to read it.. but i have saved the link so that i dont vorget it

pants chains are gay
so so very gay
i want to beat the living snot out of any kid who wears them

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Time for me to update this post yet again.

Shoes, clothes, all that other bs. When i first wrote this post, i just got in the arts and a little behind the times. So here is a update on it. The IOI cat is still a huge thing i love that gadget!


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What is good shoes?
White sneakers and such kick ass.. than there is the formal/casual shoes which look really similar to the second picture.. They are all pretty expensive and once you look around more you'll notice more that are awsome. They can even be golden boots that make you look like your from a story or something.. thats cool too. Just make sure they are high quality.. this is a basic example to get you going.









What are good pants?
I don't care what people say about jeans, as long as they are dark and fit well. Don't get baggy jeans, or very thight jeans, make sure they have a perfect fit along your legs and waste. Some jeans have writing on them and pictures and some cuts, thats cool too.. I actually like it alot more.





What are good gadgets?
Belt buckels are very important, including your belt as well. Rings (rings make sure u dont get skulls or anything like that unless you specificly want to appeal to that tribe), bracelets, neck chain, medallions and stuff along that nature. Here are some examples. Shoe laces is my very own big one i think all guys should have awsome shoe laces.. This is a huge one for me! and girls loveeeeeeeeeeeee it! make sure both shoes have different matching colours.
















What are good Shirts?
A good shirt fits you perfectly. You cant get bigger shirts, baggier, all that stuff is a huge no. Get a colour that suits you. Generally if you have darker hair, darker colours might come handy. Get funky shirts with writing and designs all over them. Make sure that the shirt collar is a hard one not a soft one. So you can bend it up right and stuff.




What are good ties?
Ties always contrast your outfit, and usually match your eye colour. Again don't get boring lame ass normal ties. Get stuff with skeletons on it, or some funky stripes.. Something awsome. And make sure the material of the tie is good. Don't go for cheap crappy material. Youll be able to tell a difference if you look at a cheap one to expensive one.







What are good ties?
You can always tell the difference between a good and bad suit by the material its made from. Further have a look at how it fits you. Everything has to fit you 100% perfect! very important. Nothing should be baggy. It should feel a little thight.





There i gave alot of stuff away! don't expect me to do give out anymore
One last thing, all your clothes work to give a congruent image of who you are! so make sure you are able to display your personality correctly on the outside. Some things also may work on some people and not so well on others. Try to look like someone, above just looking good.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZhBdufcAc8[/youtube]

Have a look at styles shoes!

- Impact

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the 3d glasses I love em, hell must kick ass in a nightclub.

but what are they for, just as a lock in prop for later on, or to grab some attention.

because you cant wear em for too long, then your eyes just sting and it hurts...

If the chick touches your IOI cat, that means she likes you! if she points at it, than all that means is shes interested . No ive never had anyone ever knock it off! its kinda funny, im the only person in the entire planet to wear a IOI cat lol. The rest of the people are asians who collect manga characters in fluffy toys.

Its a huge contradiction to the style and fashion i have. Think about a guy wearing casual formal and has this wierd looking orange cat LOL. Its awsomeness at the best.

I recently discoverd 2 other things which are cool, and ill post them at the bottome of this post.

As for the 3D glasses, well they are just a image. You can even wear black glasses, or whatever as long as it matches your shirt. And tuck/hang them off your shirt where your buttons are. That demonstrates that your confident as well.


Extra Gadgets
Make sure you appeal to the right tribe guys. Don't just put all this shite on because it will be very in congruent.


Hand Braces
Rock bracelets look awsome, and really appeal if your around muscos. The Silver spike one is more gothic and punk.
The cancer bracelets are very common now, i think its a new trend that hasn't really become popular yet. The colours are perfect and look funky. Another interesting fashion is the head band, im not used to this one, but more and more guys are starting to wear them.

Bandana
A very new trend that just started picking itself up. Yet another cool thing, watching Mystery, he likes to use a Bandana, and they are always in. And can be used as head straps. A really cool idea is if you use your countrys flag. So id buy a Bandana with the Aus flag, for you guys in the states, the USA flag. Girls are very tribal and your country appeals to everyone.

Beenies
Beenies are cool if your bald, or can't be faked messing with your hair. Make sure they are trendy looking, usually trendy beenies have alot of cool shapes and colors, they are never plain. Beenies have to match your shirt.

Glasses
Glasses are good in 2 colours, black or brown. You have to make sure they don't sit on your cheakbones and when you smile dont go up past your eyebrows.


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LOL and now I've really given away too much. NO MORE!.... Don't make me start a tab here, or i may have to charge you guys .


-Impact

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Awsome post here Impact ive been searching the internet forums for this kinda stuff for awhile just to get some new ideas. Like the leather bracelet down at the bottom.

~Saucy

Heres some extra things you can bring.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fL6ngr6vrdI[/youtube]

Credit to style.

- Impact

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I like his shirt haahaa

Hey Impact awesome post mate, can I get your opinion on some stuff, I recently bought?=)









and 2x of these braclets along with a necklace!






thinking of getting these glasses but aint sure yet they are 350 USD about..:S

I actually have that exact same black shirt LOL!
And yeah expensive glasses are awesome, same with the jeans & shoes.
Great work dude! Just make sure you get a different necklace! That one is no good.

You know I have learned so many things just talking to chicks in stores about clothes and shoes. That i can incorporate that knowledge right into my game. So if your going out there guys, and your new, start asking them questions about what’s good and what’s not fashion wise. Just to get used to opening and braking into a conversation thread.

~ Impact

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Sweet necklance goes away then )

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