So i work at a restaurant and of course there is a lot of flirting going on, i just take it lightly, no big deal, these girls aren't serious.

So in a room there are 6-10 tables so 2 servers. I'm in room with this girl that i think is cute, supposablely she flirts with me all the time, and i'm oblivious to it. I guess i make her mad at work too. But in the middle of work she ask if i can give her a ride home, I say sure, thinking i'll just drop her off and go home jack off and go to sleep.

Then she ask if i want to go to the bar (yikes, she just turned 21, i'm 20.) I tell her we'll play it by ear. She then exclaims "yes or no!" I say "well some of my friends are having parties tonight, I kind of wanted to go to those, you could come if you want." She said that'd be awesome

So we leave work and go to the party get there around 10:30 I have 2 shots immediately (can't drive for 2 hours now!) So I mingle introduce her to some of my friends and kind of let her wander around and talk to people. She always came back to me. She was talking to some guy in the kitchen and he was trying to spit game at her, and one of my friends said she was my bitch. I'm playing beerpong and get bored so I ask if she's ready to go. The guy told her he was jealous that she was hooking up with me, even though we're not, and on the ride home she's like yeah i dunno why he said that it's not like we're going to hook up. Well fuck either she's trying to tell me she's not a whore, or she doesn't see me that way.

I tell her i'm hungry and want to go home to get something to eat, she comes with me, and I tell her I want to get drunk and not have to worry about driving, she said that's fine, i can just give her a ride in the morning. I can't really drink I'm on tren extreme (legal pro hormone), and drinking is horrible for your health when on pro hormone, so I make a mixed drink with maybe half a shot, she had 4-5 beers at the party and 1 when she got to my house.

I made food,(chicken and brown rice) and some for her, we watched a movie, and she passed out on my couch, I won't drink and drive either, a $1500 fine just isn't worth it.


So I drive her home in the morning, and say that was fun, we should hang out again, she's like "ya, I'll see you at work later today"

I worked the morning shift and she worked the dinner shift, so as I was getting ready to leave she was just coming in, we both smiled at each other and she said hi. Immediately after work I go to get a fake id, it will be ready tomorrow.

So the next day at work I ask her if she wants to go to the bars on wednesday ( its the busiest night of the week around here) she acts all put out and replies "why would i want to go to the bars?"
I say " well you seemed like that's all you wanted to do on saturday, it'll be fun"
her "ya no"
Gave me the cold shoulder, seems like she could be mad that I didn't make a move on her the other night, but I'd like her to be more than just a hook up, maybe a kiss would have been appropriate, but I just haven't been gamin' much lately to be quick on my toes.

So later at work that night, I knew I had to show interest, before she lost interest. So I asked her if she wants to go to an amusement park near by, at first she tells me she has plans, I say "oh really, something more fun than an amusement park with me"
she says "well i dunno i've never been to a casino before, and joe from work asked me if I wanted to go, and I've already flaked on him once"
me "so twice wouldn't be a big deal, we'll have fun and the weather will be great"
her "I'M SO EXCITED, THIS WILL BE FUN!"


I work with her tomorrow night, and I dunno how to act around her when at work, when do i make a move at the amusement park? We're going to the amusement park on friday.

ANy advice?

Tease her and pump her up for the park. Try to let her know how exciting it will be. This will kill any hesitation she might have, and destroy an chance of her going to the casino. Do it casual, and don't get too worked up - you don't want to look like a cheese and being too enthusiastic. She agreed to go with you, but she can and will flake if she doesn't think it'll be fun. Whatever you do, DON'T act awkward or aloof towards her. She'll change her mind if you do that.

If she throws you a neg, you always respond with a self-value response.

She was definitely coming onto you. I think she was expecting much more than what actually happened. She got you to take her out by asking for a ride home (no intention of going home), then quickly tried to change the destination. She tried to make you jealous by going off to talking to other guys. You didn't respond, so that was good. You should have used the movie to try and make a move on her. You could have used the opportunity to build comfort and escalate to physical. You didn't necessarily have to go for the f-close, but it was a definite possibility.

This is a second chance that she's giving you. Don't waste it. You definitely want to get into kino (touch seduction) before the day is over. Don't get insecure - just go for it. She's been doing all this crap to try and go out with you, so she's already interested. You just have to show you return the interest. Don't supplicate yourself ever. If she demands anything from you, you twist it to question what she can do for YOU. She has to work for your favor - remember that. Tease her and neg her if you feel like she's trying to knock you down a peg. Be careful with the negging; if you go overboard you'll piss her off.

PHEW

amusement park saved your ass, man.

CLOSE!!!!

FUCKING CLOSE!!!!!!!!!!!

You made a mistake the first time. Learn from it... that you need to FUCKING CLOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Girls understand that as code for let's go back to my place; where we will later fuck. Why would she be willing to go to ur place for the remainder of the night if she didn't want to fuck u? I agree with chief, close!

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I guess I'm just treating her better than she deserves?
I've gone out, brought a girl back plenty of times to fuck her, and then never talk to her again. And to be honest it feels great, until you feel like shit, and just want a cool girl to hang out with. And sex without emotion just seems so meaningless to me anymore.

so in my moronic state of anabolic enhancements (kills sex drive to next to nothing) I thought I'd let her sleep downstairs and not try to make a move on her. Maybe it will work, maybe she'll think, wow this guy didn't try to fuck me on the first time we hung out, he must like me for more, thus making me bf material?

we'll see

That is the most AFC mindset EVER.
CLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSE!!!!!!!!

CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE CLOSE

PULL THE FUCKIN TRIGGER!!!!!!!!!!!!

ideas for making the close? we're walking around the park, do i just stop and kiss her?

If you get any inclination to do so at the moment, YES!!!

If you find yourself asking yourself "should I kiss her now?" THE ANSWER IS YES. CLOSE!!!!

CLOOOOOOOOOOSE!!!!

lol this is fun

lol, you could have gone all the way that first night easy.

But now just as Chief likes to say, just go for it and close.

so get off the fuckin roids u pill popping, muscle bound freakazoid!
either that or ljbf material

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you guys would be very disappointed in me today, she tells me she got a new job and has to go in for training tomorrow, but she tells me I can come in and see her (bartender) I tell her if she hooks it up with free drinks, she says it's her first day, I tell her well i'll just see her next time at work then, but we still have to go to the amusement park before the end of the month, she tells me she's busy, and going back to washington at the end of the month, for 4 days..

Whatever i was pissed and she wasn't giving me attention, so I just start flirting with every girl at work, even the ones i hate, get a lot of kino, and ask one out right in front of her. Actually this one is hb9, with a ton of kino, has a bf, but it's long distance, I know I could make it work, we'll just have to see, she's 3 years older than me, 2 according to my id, but she doesn't have to know that.

disappointed?
you're just making jealousy plotlines. That's legit, man.
...even though you were acting out of neediness/AFC anger or whatever... lol

Chief, how many Red Bulls do you drink each day?

. . . I'm just kidding man, I agree with what ur saying.