Hey, I appreciate you being blunt, man. I won't deny that I'm an AFC and I'll tell you why. I've spent my whole adult life doing the right things. I went through school, got a good, stable job and have had LTRs that I've had the intention of turning into potential marriages and families. But for all that, sometimes it seems like I haven't gotten shit. For being nice and doing what I'm supposed to, all I get is a boring ass job and nothing but a ridiculously platonic relationship with women. I'm sick of it. This is why the world is a bad place, because well meaning people are seldom rewarded. The people who get things out of life are scum of the Earth douchebags like Donald Trump.
I think you have a low self esteem, and yes it does not matter how good you are or always doing the right thing and getting nothing in return but this is how real life is, learn game there are a lot good threads and info on this forum even people willing to help you, girls are human and as all human they like the adrenaline the excitement in life they like guys with goals and dreams, have you offered that to any of your ltr? what are you offering them?... women like leaders are a leader or follower? learn game learn the basics, change your mindset
and you will see the difference, and yes bad boys get the girls, why? because they offer what you don't. they are natural alpha males with strong attitude, leaders in their group louder voice, probably taller than average, confidence and high esteem, women see that as demonstration of high value and creates attraction.