| Alright, so here's my situation:
I met this girl a while back, hung out often with mutual friends. Slowly get close to each other, and eventually make out. Logistics for sex at that night were pretty bad, but she insisted she wanted me, so... against my better judgement we literally just slept that night. She started to go a bit cold after that, claiming she was on her period, but then about a week later I pulled out the bang (though again, she didn't seem up for it at first). But hey, I pulled out the bang, so I thought things would go smoothly after that.
Well, not so much. She's pulled away again, and hasn't slept with me again over the last few days. She's been going through a very stressful time, so I put up with it. She had just broken up with her ex a few weeks before we hooked up, and now that she's single all these old friends of her ex are hitting on her, and she's not taking it well.
What's the best way to respond? I can tell that she's going through a tough emotional time. I don't want to be needy and text, but I'm not sure if a freezeout is the way to go, because I don't know if she's into me enough for that to pull back attention.
Should I go the honest/emotional route? Sort of talk to her straight up and say, hey, I know things are tough for you right now, etc.? something like that? Or are there some gamey things I can text her to bring back her interest? What do you guys think?
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