Just need a idea on how and if I should open…

Was out shopping at a local supermarket with my mum and brothers 2 weeks ago, and there was a cute checkout girl who keep smiling at me. Now, cause I was with my mum, I didn't make a move and just took the shopping back to the car. When my mum come back, she said that she gave my number to this girl cause she could see that she liked me, but 2 weeks on and the girl has not called or texted.

So, should I take this as a sign that the girl didn't really like me?

Or could it be that the girl must of thought that I didn't like her (because I didn't approach myself)?

And if it is the latter, how I can open next time I see her?

Thanks guys

OMG your mum gave her your #. You must have a pretty cool mum. But her giving out your number could have pretty much killed it, thats why no call, she hasn't even spoke to you before, so chances are she's going to be too shy to call someone she doesn't know, lost some attraction and not desperate or outgoing enough to call. And if your mum could see that she liked you, then i could put my money on that she deffinatly liked you. I think your mum was trying to show you how its done, get some tips off her.

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Ok here's what i think you should do.
When you go back say that you was totally unawhere that your mum handed out your number, and that she did'nt tell you until the day after. Make a joke out of it, act like its no big deal and it was a funny situation. Dont ask why she did'nt call. Turn the conversation after onto another topic, take your time at the check out to try make the convo last longer. I would'nt ask for her #, i would wait for her to offer to call you or #. But you may have to # close somehow??

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1. your mom is saying getting peoples number in front of her is ok
2. your mom had bigger balls than you

There are other women...when u come across them exchange numbers personally. How could she think u have any confidence if ur mother gave out ur phone number to her? She might even think that u asked her to do it. I'd move on rather than attempt damage control personally.

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Yeah he could forget about her and move on, but that would be the easy thing to do. Dont expect much from it, but personally think that giving this one a go would help his game and be good practice.
Just go in without no expectations and if it doesn't go to plan, it doesn't go plan.
You got nothing to lose.

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I might as well try to salvage something from this.

Was thinking of going tomorrow night (seeing as I have to buy a birthday card anyway) and when walking in, giving her a cheeky smile. If I get any kind of response, going to her and basically saying how embarrassing my mum can be sometimes and then, a bit of cocky funny… neg or two and then see what happens…

Wish me luck!

Still no-one had a good opener.... if anyone has a good one for a checkout chick post up!

Cheers, Romee

Hey romeo, blinkant had an AI, he hardly needed anything of an opener because she was already interested. For any check-out girl I don't think you need a particularly special opener. I would use something situational.

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Call me Sly.
My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

I say just go back there and pretend to buy something and talk to her.
Your problem is that she has assumed you got your mom to give her your number which says you got no confidence which might have really put her off.

Don't blame the players though blame the game. Also don't take the easy way out which is to forget about it.
Go back there pretend to buy something and say' Hey did my mom give you my number the other day? OMG I'm so embarassed.

She'll really dig this little display of vunerability and reply, "Oh it's ok your mom was cool or something like that", now just go in from there and talk to her normaly and then proceed to game. GL.

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Now looking back at all we've had...
we let so many dreams just slip through our hands...
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

cool mom by the way - but hey if you think that girl was hot and you want to get to her... go for another girl that works with her. but make sure you play your cards right to make sure she sees you going after a lesser girl.

Why waste so much time being so indirect?

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Now looking back at all we've had...
we let so many dreams just slip through our hands...
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

try explaining what happened, as if its no big deal. Prbly wont work, but will help deal with AA

romeo 02 you want a checkout opener, this is one of my favourites

'so how much of this cash do you get to keep'

HB: None

'oh, i figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%'

Transition (e.g)

'i see you dont follow fashion, i hope they pay you extra to wear that uniform'

or

'i assumed you were rich and could support me, but now im not interested.....i want a rich girl'

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cheers, will be sure to put them to good use!!!

romeo