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Cordelia hates and fears me. What does a young girl fear? Intellect [Aand]. Why? Because intellect constitutes the negation of her entire womanly existence.
Masculine handsomeness, prepossessing nature, etc. are fine resources. One can also make a conquest with them but never win a complete victory. Why? Because one is making war on a girl in her own sphere of power, and in her own sphere of power she is always the stronger. With these resources, one can make a girl blush, drop her eyes, but one can never generate the indescribable, captivating anxiety that makes her beauty interesting.
I like that "fear" or "anxiety", especially in 9's and 10's. With lower "numbers" you can be more friendly, but with the hottest girls I like to be "cold", at least in the beginning...
You mean the asshole game...let's be real here
No, that's not what I meant... Many would think of me as a of a nice guy actually.
Which I almost am.
I cant even “neg”, that's not me and I find it stupid and obvious because I have seen it a lot and was aware of it in an instant (I mean from other people towards me).
But this kind of girls I do not approach with a big smile on my face. Sometimes without a smile at all.
But when I stretch my hand to handshake with her, I look her in the eyes showing her who is the boss. This is hard for me to explain in words, I’m not violent, I’m not a dangerous guy, I’m not rich or on a high position in business. I just feel superior to her. The more I like her, the more I feel that way. Especially now when they are much younger than me. Sometimes I shake her hand a bit roughly (when we know better each other, and closer in age) and tell her “come on, shake it like a man”. With a smile, of course, and I like it, that’s why I do it. And it is OK with me, never ruined anything. And here to say, I actually don’t like when she has a strong handshake naturally, which happens with beautiful girls.
They (the hot ones) have that mindset (and even some girls I met who weren't that hot - maybe 8 - but had a high opinion on themselves as if they were 10's, and have been rejected by them 'cause I underestimated them, wasn't aware of their mindset, and that hurt slightly my ego that is not that fragile) that anything you do means that you like them. I mean anything. You can really ask her for some information but she will think you're hitting on her.
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but of course if one crosses my path and she likes me I won't say no!
I like this one.
I'm also not that young (mid/late 30's, though I look ten years younger, but I never lie about my age...) but I'm still interested (as I've always been) only for the hottest, which is not a good thing, if you want to talk about numbers. But that's me.
And I think that 8, 9, 10's are all the same thing when speak about looks, the difference is only in their mindset, awarnes of their looks and self-confidence. (I am not being in contradiction to what I just said above about the 8's, there is a slight nuance).
And there, when the Kierkegaard guy says "intellect" (translation from Danish), he means something like "spirit" or "wit" or something like that. He means of a good joke in the right time for example. It's generally that you bring her into your world, you show her things the way that she didn't see them before. Another perspective of the same things.
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