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My neurotic and weak self went and spoke to my girlfriend today. I insisted that she wasn't telling me the truth about going to see her parents and she finally broke down and told me that was a lie. At first she said that it was just going to be her and her roommate performing sexual acts on each other to get him hot and bothered and then she was going to leave the room. I told her that being partially honest was still a lie and she kept insisting that nothing else was going to happen. Since she kept insisting, I came home. She kept texting and calling and I wouldn't answer until she shown up at my door.
She kept telling me nothing else was going to happen. After about 10 minutes of her trying to reassure me that nothing else would happen I told her that I was about to give her my approval to go ahead and follow through with it and there would have been no repercussions from me but since she can't be honest I didn't want to see her anymore. That's when she finally admitted the truth that they were going to give the boyfriend the same SPAM that I got right down to the blindfold. That's when I said that I needed to think about things. She wanted me to tell her that I still loved her but I refused because I still don't know how I feel at the moment. She did go down on me but after that I told her that it doesn't change how I feel about things right now. She offered to cook something for dinner and I refused and told her that it was best that we don't speak until at least the weekend because I didn't want to think about anything that she may or may not be doing.
I still don't trust her or the situation even though she is trying now to reassure that nothing will happen. I know that's only because she felt like she got caught. I'm going to clear my head, hit the gym, hang out with friends, and not worry about anything for a while.
Boom! Was just going to reply to all this question dodging (more Arch, MC is responding to questions with his reasoning although I disgaree, Arch is just throwing an opinion, no reasoning and diverting), but this answered the would she or wouldnt she question.
Now, OP, I'm truly sorry for the outcome and my response above was due to all the dodging in the thread. You'll get this happened because you were weak, or didnt make her really orgasm, but simply, your girl didnt value fidelity as evidenced when she brought a chick in a relationship in the bedroom. And likewise, you didnt value fidelity when you allowed it. The relationship should have ended that night when you saw how easy it was for her to be a part of cheating. If Jack and I are cool, and I see Jack telling someone to steal from someone else, I have to distance myself from Jack cause I wont fool myself that he wouldnt steal from me. Besides that, you didnt do anything wrong imo, you just picked the wrong chick. You're in great shape, older, gave her good sex, still...it happens. If you had continued being the dominant male, you just wouldnt have found out.
If not giving real orgasms lead to women going elsewhere, yet the majority of men cant give a woman an orgasm, doesnt this mean that most women will just cheat? And if thats the case, that sounds more like "women are evil" than anything said here. See it just doesnt make sense and glad you didnt go down that road.
CHAT
