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It was neither advice I wanted to hear, nor was it advice. There have been a number of posters here that said things that I didn't want to hear but they weren't passive aggressive nor insulting when saying those things. I never said that you've attacked me as a person or called me names, so I'm not sure why you need to bring that up unless you think that insults are just limited to those two things. I must have missed out where you actually gave me advice regarding my situation. I've read through your statements here and the most you have done is echo the statement of not being hypocritical. Everything else you say is the same as being a Monday morning quarterback and bad science. What advice did you actually give that has added any value to the issue at hand?
First I gave you this statement so you can have peace of mind and get a good night's sleep:
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It's a relationship satisfaction thing, op. If a girl is more satisfied in her relationship with you than her relationship with her bestfriend, then there will be no dick sucking on Thursday.
But you insisted that she's going to give that blowjob to the other dude. So I asked for clarification why you didn't trust your girlfriend that much.
Then you asked for clarification why I think your girlfriend is not going to suck someone else's cock.
So I provided reasons on why women will be loyal to a man and follow a man's wishes to preserve the relationship. At this point, I was trying to understand why you didn't have that much faith in your girlfriend or yourself to keep her in line.
It was at this point that you went ballistic eventhough you were using civil, but sarcastic, language.
After getting more information from your end, I finally agreed that, yeah, she's going to suck another dude's cock because of some lack on your part.
But you wanted to insist that it was her fault not yours.
So I tried to assess why you're believing that way: that she's the one at fault here and NOT you.
Look, Arch and I was saying to have faith in your girlfriend and yourself. You didn't want to hear those advices. Up to now, Arch is still rooting for the advice that you don't want to hear that your girlfriend is going to follow your wishes of not giving another dude a blowjob. On the otherhand, after getting more info from your end, I finally agreed that she's going to suck someone else's cock and it's NOT her fault alone but both of you.
If you didn't see those as advices and doing you a favor to help you at this distressing moment in your life, then there's nothing I can do about that.
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