Ok I've gotten to the point where I can go out and pretty much mack on a girl pretty good. I get her phone number and then I want to fuck her but I'm looking for advice on the first or second phone call. Especially some girls I'll only talk to them for a minute I won't know much about them but I'll have their # so I want to call them. What should I talk about? Set up a date on the first, second, or third call? I just have all of these #'s and I think I might be wasting them because I don't call them that much. I don't know what to do after the # close.

thanks guys

-64dartsb

wow.... that's it

you guys don't know what to do when you get a girls number or what?

do you have any, first time on the phone with a girl tactics?

-64dartsb

I would say calling her would be a great idea. There are tons of threads on this site that have great iedas for your phone game. Its a really broad topic, so i would suggest using the search function and find answers to the questions you might have.

Whenever I call/text a girl i wait a couple days before i do so unless we made plans for the next day. You want to be pretty breezy most of the time. Just a quick 5 minute call to try and set up a day 2 would probably do. Each situation is different so there is no script to follow.

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Yeah calling her is the best way forward. Demonstrate confidence and dive in. I agree - there is no script to follow. Just be prepared to DHV. Talking about interesting stuff about my day is a good one (I'm a musician so I will always mention band practice).

If your mind is blank, just exagerrate slightly. I've done this before. I remember calling up a girl once and being concerned about beginning the telephone conversation on an easygoing vibe, so I just come up with a story about going to the gym that day (subtle DHV here because you clearly look after your health and well being) and being slightly shocked by seeing an outrageous looking guy with long blonde hair and tight pink hot pants pumping iron! This is totally invented, but she found this funny and it helped me roll with the conversation and secure a meet.

As long as you begin the conversation on a good point and what you say is interesting, it should get a positive reaction. You can also bat the ball back and ask what exciting things she's been up to. She will subconsciously think that she's being screened and reinforce attraction and comfort. You can then cut the conversation short because you have to go somewhere, giving her the impression of non-neediness. In my experience, I have found that this works fine.

call 2 or 3 days later and set up for a mid-week get together. like stated above, keep it short and simple. good idea with asking her about exciting things she has done. it associates a positive image of you

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After I get a chicks number my convo goes like this (I always call the next day or the day after, that way I am fresh in her mind):

Me: Waddup! It's Vittro
Her: Hey!!
Me: (if she doesn't say how I'm doing back to me, I neg her and say: Umm, where are your manners? .pause.)
Her: What do you mean?
Me: Well, I asked how you were doing and you don't even bother asking me! =)
Her: Ohh ok, let me restart, How are YOU doing Vittro (she's jumping your hoops).
Me: Much better, well Im good, just recovering from last night, which was a lot of fun by the way. Did you make it home OK?
Her: Bla bla my friends bla bla
Me: Well listen, I'm a pretty busy individual, I have to go to the gym with my friend tonight and working on a project tomorrow (fill in your own blanks based on your life style), but after that you are hanging out with me! (never say can we hang out, never! always be direct and to the point, don't cut the corners)
Her: Alright! (then you are set, say well I'll give you a call prior to that to let you know about a fun social adventure that you'll have with me) *peace out and click*
~ OR if she says: I'll give you a call or I am busy that day can I call you back * Always say ^NO, I am in and out a lot so my signal isn't at its best so I'll call you again later/another time and you'll go on a fun journey with me* (give her some sort of excuse to let her know that you'll be calling her again and not the other way around. After you bang her or show her a good time she'll be calling you, but at first you always make the first moves)

From my experience if you just met a girl and she says something like that over the phone (about her calling you back) 7 out of 10 times it does not happen. So make sure you let her know that YOU'LL be calling her back again when YOU are available again.