How do you reboot a girl you gave up on?

Basically was chatting to some girl, then when I suggested meeting, she said something like, 'Depends if you're meeting loads of others already'.

I dodged the chit test, but I got annoyed as she started texting less frequently and dodged my one suggestion of meeting.

I have a few options so just stopped texting and met someone else last night.

This morning (2 days after her last boring text which I ignored) she goes:

Hey you ignored me
Don't you want to talk to me anymore?
Me: Who's this? (genuinely didnt know, i deleted her number)
The nurse!
Me: Real nurse or pretend?
Her:Pretend
Her: How was your weekend?


Not replied yet. Usually with girls like this i'm totally open and i'd say something like, 'Yea was pretty awesome', then i'd openly say what I did (in this case i hung out with the girl, got the best BJ of my life, but shes on her period so didnt smash).

At the same time this girl whos texting is hot, so i wouldnt mind meeting her.
Thoughts?

"Would've gone better if the girl I went out with wasn't on her period. Or if I wasn't scared of blood.
Let's meet up at X bar tonight."

How would you expect her to react to that?

Sent it anyway. She replied 'ew is that true?'.

What shall I put back

I would expect her to meet me at the damn bar

How she responds to YOU depends if this answer is congruent with your personality or how she knows you to be.

Anyhow:

"I'll tell you all about it tonight at 7." (considering you did invite her to that bar)

The purpose of texting is to arrange a meeting, not to chit chat yourself into the friendzone.

Actually got her to meet tonight. So now what do i say if she actually asks about it in person lol

You know better than I do how it went

Anyway, few tips for a date:

1) Start with flirting and being sexual from the get go, to establish that frame.

2) Don't start with you telling her about your weekend. Chance is she met up with you because you sparked her curiosity and she will ask you herself.

3) At this point what works for me is to be honest and confident about it.

Tell her how you went with this incredible girl you instantly clicked with, how you ended back at your place, how you both wanted to fuck so bad, but she was on her period and you have blood phobia so she had to settle with giving you a blowjob.

Or whatever happened.

Then you can tell her you hope she isn't on her period cause you can see where this night is going.

4) Drink a little, have fun, let her tell you about her weekend and tease her. Most importantly flirt.

5) Take her home to see a movie, cook her something or show her the stain on your bed from the last girls period.

Now a few pitfalls, where you can fail:

a) Not establishing immediately a sexual frame. The later you do it the more chance it has to fall flat and be awkward.

b) Being uncomfortable with being honest => you won't be confident about it => you won't be attractive

c) Being apologetic if she doesn't like something about you

For example:

if she says:
"You're a horrible guy for going out with me just the day after you went out with this girl"
you should say:
"Yeah, you should've listened to your mother about going out with guys like me." (or any kind of "deal with it" statement)

If you apologize in any way or are uncomfortable, it's game over.

Don't talk negatively about periods with women. They'll see you as a weak boy if it scares you. Periods are natural. plus women get crazy sexual right before and during.

I've literally heard girls call guys "pussies" for being frightened of periods.

When you act grossed out by periods, it makes you look like you aren't around vaginas very often.

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Meh, not into blood sex.

Anyway just got home, smashed her.
Pretty funny, she never even mentioned the subject. Went out for a couple drinks, back to her place. We are spooning and she says i'm being aggressive. Kind of gave up and got bored, then she hints that the aggressiveness is a good thing. Thought fuk it, started kissing her neck and rubbing her panties.
Her puppy kept jumping on the sofa so we go upstairs, she mentioned in text she likes it rough, so im throat fukin her, throwing her around a bit (5ft nothing, asian girl but came to the UK when she was 16).

Was the most unexpected smash ever. Didnt think i'd ever talk to her again then on the same day she texts me, same night we fuk.

Gonna be tired for college tomorrow but worth it.

Oh and thanks for the text advice, it worked. Will use on future 'low chance of meeting' type of girls as a fire and forget.

It's not about that, it's just about not being a little boy. I'm not into it either, but when you spend enough time around pussy, periods become nothing to you.

I say this a lot on the forum, that women forget about things much easier than men. Men will harp on the same weird, minute detail for a week or two, making themselves look neurotic, then get dumped.

nice job on the rest! Especially not bringing up a small detail from a prior conversation, and staying chill to see if she brings it up.

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Great job!

That's what you get for seizing the moment and escalating quick.

Women are creatures of the moment, if you miss a window of opportunity with them you have to wait until another one opens. If it ever does.

For that reason if a girl texts you, in my opinion you should try to meet up with her asap, because sometimes she texts you because she is lonely, horny or just wants you then, IN THAT MOMENT.

If you plan a date a week in advance, those feelings that made her text you are dead and buried by then and your chance at escalating successfully drops like the bass at a Skrillex concert.

Will it be impossible to seduce her then? Of course not, but you will probably have to reignite the attraction in her, which, depending on her mood and other factors you don't control, might get tougher than you would believe.

And that's if she doesn't flake from the date altogether.

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Nice work in this thread guys.

And for the trillionth time yet another example of how it's about what they do not what they say:

I forgot to mention when I initially suggested coming to her house she said:

'Im not looking for a one night stand sorry'
'A one night stand? Who said anything about sex, im not even sure if i'm attracted to you yet!'
'Men can be aggressive'
'I'm not sex starved or desperate'
'Ok lets hang out'.