Hi !

So I met this girl in school. We dont know each other but I think she is sending me some strong signals via eye contact. And thats why I am here, I just want to know wether I am right or not.

I will approach her anyways in the next days, just asking wether these signals are true IOIs or not.

» she gave me a sideway glance. And as I caught her, she immediately looked down

» as I walked in a group of three (on the street), she came towards us and as she passed us she gave me a brief glance, looked down immediately, again a brief glance, looked down, brief glance no.3, looked down. So I guess a triple take ?

» she gave me a brief glance across the room and looked down as I caught her.

» whenever we lock eyes she immediately looks down to the floor.

Like I already said, I will approach her anyways, I am just curious.

So are these things actually IOIs and do you think she is showing me interest ?

Thank You !

Basically the same thing everytime dude. She could be feeling you, the best thing to do is approach her, have a chat and find out.

yes they are,now approach

Those are nonverbal signs of submission. Take immediate action when you see those. When that moment of attraction is gone, it's GONE. Every time you procrastinate or hesitate, your odds for the lay goes way, way down until the girl is no longer attracted to you.

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So the reason for such submissive behaviour is actually interest/attraction ?

And I actually think I lost some attraction. The first day after 2 weeks of vacation (2 days ago) she looked to the side instead of down after 2 times eye contact. And as we passed each other she avoided eye contact.

So is the attraction/interest gone ? Any chances ? Or are those just mixed signals which she is using to cover her interest ?

I will talk to her as soon as possible (tomorrow). And I really hope she is just using these mixed signals to cover her interest.

Majority of girls (the feminine ones) are creatures of the moment. When the moment is gone, it's gone. If the moment is there again, take action. If the moment is NOT there with this girl, then sarge ten other girls who are in the moment of attraction with you.

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If you're going to approach anyway it doesn't make a difference. If you're not going to approach unless we tell you they are IOI's then you're better off not approaching at all.

All signs are indicators of interests until you discover that they aren't through you actually taking personal action.

ASSUME ATTRACTION. Assume she spends her days and nights waiting on you to finally get some balls and approach her. Now go approach.

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I already told you (twice) in my very first post that I will approach her anyways (no matter what you are saying about the signals) lol I am just curious. Thats why I am asking.

There's something in seduction called the 3 second rule.

Google it.

Practice it.

Live it.

Then you never again have to worry about if someone is giving you IOIs before you've approached.

I forget where I read it but this is a CLEAR IOI as well as a nonverbal communication demonstrating her subconscious willingness to submit to an Alpha Male. From my experience, she may not realize this consciously but she's making it clear she wants to be approached. The longer you wait the more the subconscious will realize that it mistook you for that Alpha and will classify you as Beta, and will set a nice space in the Friend Zone for you when you finally work up the nerve to approach.