I want to go to the club tonight, and open a set. I can get over the anxiety. What I have a problem is, is content. I don't know what opener to use, and once I open, I don't know where to take it. I must be limited mentally or something. I need a good opener. I don't want to use one in the list above, because I want something that is new and fresh. I'm going to list some openers I thought about. Tell me if they are good or not, please.

- Hey, what company do you think is better, Target or Walmart?

- Hey, why do you think gay guys are gay? Some people tell me its genetic, some tell me that it is a chemical inbalance in the brain. What do you think?

- Hey, what do you think of Blu-ray? I think the clearer picture is great, but is it worth the money that you are paying for it?

- Hey, what do you think of McDonalds? Is it good that so many people eat there?

- Hey, quick question. I have a friend that is bi. He likes this guy and this girl, and he is a little confused about which one to spend more time with. No joke. What should he do?

These are the best my brain can come up with. Are they okay, or ar they horrible. I have a hard time with creativity, thinking of good stuff.

I guess I'm afraid to use these, because I don't feel confident that they are good openers. If I know they are good, I will use them. I think that is what my problem is. I can't even get started unless I fix this problem.

ok dude, get rid of every opener about target, blueray, all that shit. now go to a website, find some cool openers, and study what makes them good openers.
heres an example:

Me: would u go out with a guy in a wheelchair?
Her: No/Yes
Me: what if it was electric, would u steal it in the middle of the night and go for a joy ride?

The reason why this works is because its funny, and gets them thinking about dating(this opener not so much). u have to set the mood and make a good impression. the wheelchair opner sets a relationshipy mood and shows ur a funny guy. a target or walmart opener shows ur boring as hell and gets hbs thinking about bussines.

I love that wheelchair opener blue. Curious look up openers on here. There are dozens and dozens of opener s on this site. Just uese the search function, its really handy. Most of yours are kinda lame, they are just too soft. Try to think of something that would stimiulate more conversation and something a little less boring. You have a great start and are in the right mind frame.

I like the "who would you rather date? Tigger or Whinne the Pooh?". Thats one that came from this site, i just wish i could remeber who posted it cause its golden. This one would get women talking because you can go into how tigger would bounce in and outta their life and probably be pretty fun, but pooh would be stable and blah blah blah.... you can go alot of places with this one.

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Thanks for the optimism. I need all the help I can get. I'm kinda panicking right now. Because I'm 22, never had a gf, I'm not socially experienced, I'm lonely as hell, and if I don't start learning how to do all of this stuff, I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.

You know, a lot of people say that guys have it easier in life. If that's the case, then how come guys have to do all the work? Where is the logic in that? I think girls have it easier. All they have to do is look pretty, and they can get all the attention they want, they don't even have to work for anything, and they have these egos because they brush all of these guys off. Maybe there is a reason girls live longer than guys? I'm just ranting here right now, but come on, it's the truth.

Ever notice how women models, celeberities, get a lot more attention than the males. I was talking to my grandmother about it too. She said it too, it's a women's world out there. Girls have the world by the balls.

My sister tells me that it is easy to make friends, but this is coming from a girl who has a lot of friends. And I keep telling her, the only reason you have so many friends, is because you are a girl. She disagrees with that, but lets be honest, if she was a guy, she wouldn't be nearly as popular. She tells me that when she goes to the bar, she doesn't need to worry about money for drinks, she'll just get a bunch of guys to buy her drinks. But it doesn't work the other way around. The only way a girl would even buy a guy a drink is if his game was tight. Girls don't have to run game at all. Just look "hot". Kinda unfair. I like guy things, and I'm not bashing girls, I'm just saying. Kinda bothers me that society is so gender-biased.

if a girl bumps you then reply
"Excuse me, did you just grab my ass?"
"No."
"Oh, Damn."
That's pretty funny. And cocky.

or if youre running day game in a mall and she's looking in the mirror

"don't worry, you/your hair don't/doesn't look THATTT bad

Get rid of the idea that its a woman's world. Its your world. You control it. I have dated girls who hardly have friends. Its easy for guys to make friends too, you just have to be willing to put the time and effort into it. Start sarging guys. Not for dating purposes, but for making friends. If you start to make friends with guys who are really good with women you can study and learn from them. It will help. Hell, go out with your sister. Use her as a pivot because a woman is naturally more observant than men are.

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