This is my idea of a day that went well. I was able to have a few conversations with people without alcohol.

I went up to a group of two girls who turned out to be sisters. There was one ugly one and that looked okay but seemed mentally slow, or maybe just drunk. I asked the ugly one why she was dressed up in her outfit (with Christmas decorations). It eventually went to what's our names and where they worked and she worked in a section of town where I buy clothes sometimes.

That's my definition of success at this point.

Is that pathetic? What do I need to work on.

I can't imagine myself doing kino and the girls actually wanting me to touch them.

No, do not kino at this point.
1 Just assume rapport: I reckon you been recently to London, you give out some London vibe...bla...bla...bla. then short time later you should take full control: OKay, lets go to the caffee with the ping-pong table, it is gona be cool...and you improvize...

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Sooner than she thinks I'm at her door, from a world she's chosen to ignore.

Yea I'm not much good at leading at this point.

Sounds like success so far. As in there is failure, success and success so far.
As for leading start small I suppose. You can get them to do small things for you like hold your drink while you tie your shoe or otherwise juggle things in your hands. Keep talking that's important. If you act like following you is the most natural thing in the world they will.

Assume dominance.

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Sooner than she thinks I'm at her door, from a world she's chosen to ignore.

Perfect.

Do that 100 more times before you make another post on the forums and you'll be fine.

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I have probably done this 100 times, just not posted about it.

My problems are that I always go out alone so it's often not polite to interrupt people's groups, and even if I do open, I get stuck in interview mode and probably bore them to tears.

I had a good conversation with a bartender yesterday that I'm surprised nobody commented on.