Hi,

So my girlfriend never experienced an orgasm before me

I managed to make her orgasm with my mouth a couple of times

But lately she doesn't really seem into "getting an orgasm" that much anymore

Sometimes when i go down there she tells me "no not now please come lay next to me"

I asked her later what the problem was, she stated that she has to really focus and do her best to be able to reach an orgasm, and sometimes she just doesn't want to do all that trouble because she doesn't want to spend that long trying to reach it

It takes up to 10-20 minutes for her to be able to orgasm, sometimes it takes longer and she wants me to stop because she can feel its nog gonna happen anymore

She also said that most of the time she just wants to get fucked by me instead of having to lay quietly for 10-20 minutes trying to get an orgasm. (This is something i understand btw)

But obviously after im finished there's nothing i can really do anymore except use my mouth (no i dont come within 10 minutes, i can last pretty long 95% of the time)

I kind of feel bad about this because in some way i feel like i am letting her down by not getting her cum

Wondering if anyone has any input or tips on what i can do about this

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

My tip would be to forget sex and make your goal to make her orgasm, then sex. No orgasm equals no sex. (well at least limit it)
. It seems she isn't the sexual type, her brain is probably wired for her to achieve orgasms better herself than the help of someone else. That can change.
So by you limiting sex you will be motivated to help rewire her.

Follow heywoods article and you should be good to go next time. Her relaxed is key.

https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First- ... 0060538260

Has she said that she experiences discomfort? Tell her that sex is messy and make her feel comfortable.