Im in the same place you are right now. I am just forcing myself to talk to and flirt with hb's everywhere. It doesn't matter the situation. I walked up to a girl at the book store the other day asking if she knew where books on how to write comedy were in the most stone faced look ever. She busted up laughing because i looked like i had no sense of humor but i kept the same frame and made sure everything i said was with a really dry tone. She laughed and said I was really funny.
I have found that i succeed when no expectations are being put on me. Im not a big fan of the bar scene but here lately it seems everything is clicking, i just have to get over this one-itus i have.

oneitus sucks. but running into lots of pretty girls does the trick usually. that 's pretty good in the book store. it's your style. that's when the pu is the best when you make it your own... not just a copy